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Are You Born Again?

Coconut

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Are You Born Again?

by J. C. Ryle

Are you born again? This is one of life's most important questions.
Jesus Christ said "Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God" (John 3:3).

It is not enough to reply, "I belong to the church; I suppose I'm a Christian." Thousands of nominal Christians show none of the signs of being born again which the Scriptures have given us—many listed in the First Epistle of John.

No Habitual Sinning

First of all, John wrote: "Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin" (I John 3:9).
"Whosoever is born of God sinneth not" (5:18).

A person who has been born again, or regenerated, does not habitually commit sin. He no longer sins with his heart and will and whole inclination. There was probably a time when he did not think about whether his actions were sinful or not, and he did not always feel grieved after doing evil. There was no quarrel between him and sin; they were friends. But the true Christian hates sin, flees from it, fights against it, considers it his greatest plague, resents the burden of its presence, mourns when he falls under its influence, and longs to be completely delivered from it. Sin no longer pleases him, nor is it even a matter of indifference to him; it has become a horrible thing which he hates. However, he cannot eliminate its presence within him.

If he said that he had no sin, he would be lying (I John 1:8). But he can say that he hates sin and that the great desire of his soul is not to commit sin at all. He cannot prevent bad thoughts from entering his mind, or shortcomings, omissions, and defects from appealing in both his words and his actions. He knows that "in many things we offend all" (James 3:2). But he can truly say, in the sight of God, that these things cause him grief and sorrow and that his whole nature does not consent to them. What would the apostle say about you? Are you born again?

Believing in Christ

Second, John wrote: "Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God" (I John 5:1).

A man who is born again, or regenerated, believes that Jesus Christ is the only Saviour who can pardon his soul, that He is the divine person appointed by God the Father for this very purpose, and beside Him there is no Saviour at all. In himself he sees nothing but unworthiness. But he has full confidence in Christ, and trusting in Him, he believes that his sins are all forgiven. He believes that, because he has accepted Christ's finished work and death on the cross, he is considered righteous in God's sight, and he may look forward to death and judgment without alarm.

He may have fears and doubts. He may sometimes tell you that he feels as if he had no faith at all. But ask him if he is willing to trust in anything instead of Christ, and see what he will say. Ask him if he will rest his hope of eternal life on his own goodness, his own works, his prayers, his minister, or his church, and listen to his reply. What would the apostle say about you? Are you born again?

Practicing Righteousness

Third, John wrote: "Every one that doeth righteousness is born of Him" (I John 2:29).

The man who is born again, or regenerated, is a holy man. He endeavors to live according to God's will, to do the things that please God and to avoid the things that God hates. He wishes to continually look to Christ as his example as well as his Saviour and to prove himself to be Christ's friend by doing whatever He commands. He knows he is not perfect. He is painfully aware of his indwelling corruption. He finds an evil principle within himself that is constantly warring against grace and trying to draw him away from God. But he does not consent to it, though he cannot prevent its presence.

Though he may sometimes feel so low that he questions whether or not he is a Christian at all, he will be able to say with John Newton, "I am not what I ought to be, I am not what I want to be, I am not what I hope to be in another world; but still I am not what I once used to be, and by the grace of God I am what I am." What would the apostle say about you? Are you born again?

Loving Other Christians

Fourth, John wrote: "We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love the brethren" (I John 3:14).

A man who is born again has a special love for all true disciples of Christ. Like his Father in heaven, he loves all men with a great general love, but he has a special love for those who share his faith in Christ. Like his Lord and Saviour, he loves the worst of sinners and could weep over them; but he has a peculiar love for those who are believers. He is never so much at home as when he is in their company.

He feels they are all members of the same family. They are his fellow soldiers, fighting against the same enemy. They are his fellow travelers, journeying along the same road. He understands them, and they understand him. They may be very different from himself in many ways—in rank, in station and in wealth. But that does not matter. They are his Father's sons and daughters and he cannot help loving them. What would the apostle say about you? Are you born again?

Overcoming the World

Fifth, John wrote: "Whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world" (I John 5:4).

A man who is born again does not use the world's opinion as his standard of right and wrong. He does not mind going against the world's ways, ideas and customs. What men think or say no longer concerns him. He overcomes the love of the world. He finds no pleasure in things which seem to bring happiness to most people. To him they seem foolish and unworthy of an immortal being.

He loves God's praise more than man's praise. He fears offending God more than offending man. It is unimportant to him whether he is blamed or praised; his first aim is to please God. What would the apostle say about you? Are you born again?

Keeping Oneself Pure

Sixth, John wrote: "He that is begotten of God keepeth himself' (I John 5:18).

A man who is born again is careful of his own soul. He tries not only to avoid sin but also to avoid everything which may lead to it. He is careful about the company he keeps. He knows that evil communications corrupt the heart and that evil is more catching than good, just as disease is more infectious than health. He is careful about the use of his time; his chief desire is to spend it profitable.

He desires to live like a soldier in an enemy country—to wear his armor continually and to be prepared for temptation. He is diligent to be watchful, humble, prayerful man. What would the apostle say about you? Are you born again?

The Test

These are the six great marks of a born again Christian.

There is a vast difference in the depth and distinctness of these marks in different people. In some they are faint and hardly noticeable. In others they are bold, plain and unmistakable, so anyone may read them. Some of these marks are more visible than others in each individual. Seldom are all equally evident in any one person.

But still, after every allowance, here we find boldly painted six marks of being born of God.

How should we react to these things? We can logically come to only one conclusion—only those who are born again have these six characteristics, and those who do not have these marks are not born again. This seems to be the conclusion to which the apostle intended us to come. Do you have these characteristics? Are you born again?
 
Yeah, Im born again. Regenerated back in '85, recieved the Spirit '01, and trying to follow after my Lover.
 
Coconut,

Your post reminds me of a quote I've cited on this forum before. It comes from Billy Sunday, the famous evangelist of the early 20th century:

"Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than going to your garage makes you a car."


SLE
 
I also think by just going to a church, some are not saved. Yes, they believe in God, but they are not disciplined and obedient enough to Gods Word. Unless one changes their hearts, changes their ways and their whole out-look in life and one needs to be in fellowship with God daily. Reading your Bible daily is important, that's how God speaks to us and teaches us and He will reveal the truth to us.

I spent most of this week going through lessons on trusting God and I came to conclusion, we just don't trust Him enough on every aspect of our life. Its a hard one to take in, but true. Me being a newly born Christian, I am learning daily through Him and its wonderful. For example, if we have a problem, most of us would run to a friend or family member for comfort, but the first person we must call, is our Father, tell Him our problems and concerns, He will answer. Sometimes the answer maybe not what we want to hear, but He does answer. Sometimes I don't act on His answer, then I wonder why things don't go right. I have so much to learn, but I really look forward to each day now, so I can spend time with my Father.

Joh 14:26 But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.

If one finds a good church all well and good, I'd say keep attending. I attend a Christian centre and I have left my mind open, whether I will continue there or not. I have only been attending for the last month, so its early days yet. God will show me the right place to go too and when I feel totally happy in my heart, I will know its Gods will for me to be there.

One of the things God led me to this week was praying in Churches or with other people around. Well this opened up my eyes, as in my heart I was never comfortable about praying in public, as most of my prayer time, is done alone. Yes I will pray for others, but its done alone.

Mat 6:5 And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

Mat 6:6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

You see for what I have learnt so far and correct me if I am wrong, aren't we supposed to go to Church to worship and praise God and thank Him for getting us through the week.
 
Nikki

Scripture doesn't require us to attend church, but I think we need to keep in mind the message of Hebrews 10:23-25, which says "Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful. And let us consider how we can spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see The Day approaching."

I don't know of a better way to "hold unswervingly to the hope we profess" or to "spur one another on toward love and good deeds" than regular physical participation in worship services and small group activities in church buildings or in peoples' homes (or both).
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I'm in a church where Jesus is truly Lord. His command in Mt 28 is being carried out and it is soooo exciting to be part of that action. It is through my church that I have come to really know and love Jesus. I call my church "My Spiritual Gas Station", for it is in my church-related activities that I am continually filled with the Holy Spirit (See Ephesians 5:18).

SLE
 
Word of Life said:
I also think by just going to a church, some are not saved. Yes, they believe in God, but they are not disciplined and obedient enough to Gods Word. Unless one changes their hearts, changes their ways and their whole out-look in life and one needs to be in fellowship with God daily. Reading your Bible daily is important, that's how God speaks to us and teaches us and He will reveal the truth to us.
I spent most of this week going through lessons on trusting God and I came to conclusion, we just don't trust Him enough on every aspect of our life. Its a hard one to take in, but true. Me being a newly born Christian, I am learning daily through Him and its wonderful. For example, if we have a problem, most of us would run to a friend or family member for comfort, but the first person we must call, is our Father, tell Him our problems and concerns, He will answer. Sometimes the answer maybe not what we want to hear, but He does answer. Sometimes I don't act on His answer, then I wonder why things don't go right. I have so much to learn, but I really look forward to each day now, so I can spend time with my Father.
Joh 14:26 But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
If one finds a good church all well and good, I'd say keep attending. I attend a Christian centre and I have left my mind open, whether I will continue there or not. I have only been attending for the last month, so its early days yet. God will show me the right place to go too and when I feel totally happy in my heart, I will know its Gods will for me to be there.
One of the things God led me to this week was praying in Churches or with other people around. Well this opened up my eyes, as in my heart I was never comfortable about praying in public, as most of my prayer time, is done alone. Yes I will pray for others, but its done alone.
Mat 6:5 And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
Mat 6:6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.
You see for what I have learnt so far and correct me if I am wrong, aren't we supposed to go to Church to worship and praise God and thank Him for getting us through the week.

Very good post sister, :star: on the praying thing you can go to prayer meetings with the saints...in the new testament there were times when the saints gathered to pray. Upper room on the day of Pentecost was one. What Christ was saying here, was don't just pray to be seen of men, or fast to be seen of men...

Act 1:13 And when they were come in, they went up into an upper room, where abode both Peter, and James, and John, and Andrew, Philip, and Thomas, Bartholomew, and Matthew, James [the son] of Alphaeus, and Simon Zelotes, and Judas [the brother] of James.
Act 1:14 These all continued with one accord in prayer and supplication, with the women, and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brethren.



Act 4:31 And when they had prayed, the place was shaken where they were assembled together; and they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and they spake the word of God with boldness.



Act 1:24 And they prayed, and said, Thou, Lord, which knowest the hearts of all [men], shew whether of these two thou hast chosen,


Act 21:5 And when we had accomplished those days, we departed and went our way; and they all brought us on our way, with wives and children, till [we were] out of the city: and we kneeled down on the shore, and prayed.


Act 20:35 I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.
Act 20:36 And when he had thus spoken, he kneeled down, and prayed with them all.


God bless
 
Reply to Nikki 1981:(9th posting)

Hi Nikki . I am glad when you quote the scriptures.

Wow I didn't realize I got responses here because I was not subscribed to this thread.
Chad, you are right about the guilt thing being from the devil. I try to ignore it but sometimes it's hard. Someone once told me to say a scripture aloud when the enemy tries to make you feel bad about yourself. The scripture I usually end up saying is "greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world."And Chad you're absolutely right, it's all about the heart, God looks into the depths of our hearts


Many times , the devil tries to rob our joy and happiness. He implants hurtful things in our thoughts and make us feel really bad about ourselves. That was when I went into depression one day .
I felt so hopeless . But , as you said it Nikki from the scriptures .....
"greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world."

Yes , Lord !
You are the Lord of all Lords , Kings of all Kings.

He comes to our rescue. He saves us when we call on to HIM .
 
John Newton, "I am not what I ought to be, I am not what I want to be, I am not what I hope to be in another world; but still I am not what I once used to be, and by the grace of God I am what I am."

that quote really hit me and im glad i came across it on a day like today.
 
A Scripture that I find to be very effective is 2 Cor 10: 5b -

"And we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." When I tell the enemy that I'm taking a thought captive, I'm bringing the power of the Holy Spirit into the situation under terms of the verse you cited from 1 Jn 4:4 and he (the enemy) always flees.


SLE
 
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