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To start a conflict is to release a flood; stop the dispute before it breaks out. Proverbs 17:14 CSB
Chapters of the book of Proverbs are like shells in a shotgun. To read them is to pull the trigger. The resulting blast sprays individual pellets, many of which hit a target. Today’s scripture likely strikes many of us.
How easy it is to pop off, lashing out with irritation, sarcasm, or insult. Sinful human nature—even the nature blessed by the presence of God’s Holy Spirit—is prone to conflict. We want what we want, and everyone else is an obstacle! So, in big ways and small, our common temptation is to seek the advantage, to start the fight.
Proverbs 17:14 provides both a warning and a solution. Warning: Starting fights releases a flood—ever-increasing irritation, sarcasm, and insults, which soon overwhelm our emotional landscape. Solution: Stop. Just don’t do it. Each of us has the power to bite your tongue and prevent that dispute from ever breaching the dam.
The key is the aforementioned Holy Spirit in our lives. As Christians, we are temples of God’s Spirit, who is always present to guide us. When we allow Him free rein, He produces His “fruit” in our lives—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and self-control, among them (Galatians 5:22-23).
So let the Spirit lead. Stop that dispute before it starts. Bite your tongue.
Prayer: Lord God, give me the wisdom and the will to avoid foolish conflict.
Chapters of the book of Proverbs are like shells in a shotgun. To read them is to pull the trigger. The resulting blast sprays individual pellets, many of which hit a target. Today’s scripture likely strikes many of us.
How easy it is to pop off, lashing out with irritation, sarcasm, or insult. Sinful human nature—even the nature blessed by the presence of God’s Holy Spirit—is prone to conflict. We want what we want, and everyone else is an obstacle! So, in big ways and small, our common temptation is to seek the advantage, to start the fight.
Proverbs 17:14 provides both a warning and a solution. Warning: Starting fights releases a flood—ever-increasing irritation, sarcasm, and insults, which soon overwhelm our emotional landscape. Solution: Stop. Just don’t do it. Each of us has the power to bite your tongue and prevent that dispute from ever breaching the dam.
The key is the aforementioned Holy Spirit in our lives. As Christians, we are temples of God’s Spirit, who is always present to guide us. When we allow Him free rein, He produces His “fruit” in our lives—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and self-control, among them (Galatians 5:22-23).
So let the Spirit lead. Stop that dispute before it starts. Bite your tongue.
Prayer: Lord God, give me the wisdom and the will to avoid foolish conflict.