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Hi All
sorry if I'm not posting in the right place, but I'm new-ish to posting.
But. I feel like my life is falling apart, I'm lost from god and I feel like I'm failing at things in life , I really want god back in my life and to have a relatshionship with him , I'm fed up with the same old things that happen in my life , I want my life to chage , and I'm fed up of being hurt in life , I know god loves me and wants me to be his child (so I've be told ??)

please can you pray for me guys , coz I want my life back on track and to have god back in my life.

thanks.
 
The answer is in the Word. As you say seek and you will find. God says that when you seek Me you will find me when you seek me with all of your heart. Jer.29:13.

We build any relationship by spending time with them and you need to hear the Word and read it as that is how you will grow in your faith. Also praying as it tells us to pray without ceasing.

As you learn to fix your eyes upon Jesus and walk in the spirit you will not fulfil the lust of the flesh.Gal.5:16. We daily have to die to our flesh the natural man and walk in our new man. Now we are born again we are new creations.2Cor.5:17

God bless

LLJ :love: :rainbow: :rose:
 
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.Psalm 139, "O Lord, You have searched me and known me. You know my sitting down and my rising up; You understand my thought afar off. You comprehend my path and my lying down, And are acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word on my tongue, But behold, O Lord, You know it altogether. You have hedged me behind and before, And laid Your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; It is high, I cannot attain it. Where can I go from Your Spirit? Or where can I flee from Your presence? If I ascend into heaven, You are there; If I make my bed in hell, behold, You are there. If I take the wings of the morning, And dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, Even there Your hand shall lead me, And Your right hand shall hold me....How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand; When I awake, I am still with You." (Psalm 139:1-10 & 17-18)


James 4:8 (King James Version)
8Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded


It's time to draw near to God, He's always there waiting on us.

Psalm 66:18 (King James Version)
18If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me:


When we confess our sins, and rid ourselves of unforgiveness we open the doors for better communication with God.

1 John 1:9 (King James Version)
9If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.


God knows our heart, but it's only when we go to him we can experience deliverance and true cleansing.


Luke 17:5-6 (King James Version)
5And the apostles said unto the Lord, Increase our faith.
6And the Lord said, If ye had faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye might say unto this sycamine tree, Be thou plucked up by the root, and be thou planted in the sea; and it should obey you
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letting go of all disappointments in life and trusting what God can do you you. Your Faith must increase. With God nothing is impossible.




Romans 10:17 (King James Version)
17So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.




Romans 5
1Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:

2By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.


Hebrews 4:16 (King James Version)
16Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.


Start Reading the bible, join a Christian fellowship.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mistery .Today is a gift thats why its called the Present.
 
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Yes, sister for Christ....

may I share something with you?

Recently I was at a man's side as he cried and asked why he did not have peace with God, as He always prayed to God.... he told me all about his dedication to God... and after some time I said to him....

"Jesus"

I left him rejoicing because he learnt that our peace with God is only found in Jesus.

I will pray for you sister.....

remember Jesus..

Jesus

Jesus

Bless you ....><>

Br. Bear
 
I am not sure, and I don't want to offend you, but have you received Jesus Christ into your heart? Have you confessed your sins and told Jesus that you need Him?
I hope you have, and that is the first step to changing. Now it gets a little messy, but you are at Ephesians 4:23... change.

Ephesians 4: 22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;
23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds;
24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

You put off your old self, change the attitude of your minds, and put on your new self. The whole process does not happen overnight, but it does happen. I am amazed at the difference in myself. I am not perfect by any means, put me next to Jesus and see how dirty I am!! But my old self was pretty bad... selfish, liar, thief, bad parent, you name it!! Some of the things I've done, I deserve to be in prison for life. But I am not, by God's grace and mercy. And even though many of us have never been behind physical bars, we have all been behind spiritual bars, in spiritual prisons.
I was set free, you can be set free. Don't let the devil condemn you... Jesus did not come to condemn but to save (John 3:17).
Praise God that you desire to change... you won't change without the desire. Now I pray for wisdom and steadfastness for you... God will be with you throughout this changing process if you let Him. Use His strength, because He doesn't wear out.... yours will.
I hope you have a biblical, Jesus-believing church to attend. If you don't, please find one. You can find great support there.
 
I am not sure, and I don't want to offend you, but have you received Jesus Christ into your heart? Have you confessed your sins and told Jesus that you need Him?
I hope you have, and that is the first step to changing. Now it gets a little messy, but you are at Ephesians 4:23... change.

Ephesians 4: 22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;
23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds;
24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

You put off your old self, change the attitude of your minds, and put on your new self. The whole process does not happen overnight, but it does happen. I am amazed at the difference in myself. I am not perfect by any means, put me next to Jesus and see how dirty I am!! But my old self was pretty bad... selfish, liar, thief, bad parent, you name it!! Some of the things I've done, I deserve to be in prison for life. But I am not, by God's grace and mercy. And even though many of us have never been behind physical bars, we have all been behind spiritual bars, in spiritual prisons.
I was set free, you can be set free. Don't let the devil condemn you... Jesus did not come to condemn but to save (John 3:17).
Praise God that you desire to change... you won't change without the desire. Now I pray for wisdom and steadfastness for you... God will be with you throughout this changing process if you let Him. Use His strength, because He doesn't wear out.... yours will.
I hope you have a biblical, Jesus-believing church to attend. If you don't, please find one. You can find great support there.

yes , I have jesus in my heart and I have a really storg relatshionship with him
 
Dear all

Thank you to all who reply to my post, and for the advice.

I still need help , coz I feel like my life is falling apart, and also I feel so far away from god. and I get this feeling that I'm going to hell , I feel so down coz my life is in a mess, I know god cares , but right now , thing are so hard , and I feel like I'm failing everyday , please can you pray that I will get back on track with God , and that I see his light. :unlove::helppc:


p.s , I do have a very good relationship with Jesus
 
ForChrist:

From personal experience, I make these suggestions: 1) Carefully review your daily routine. Your daily schedule will tell you how important the Lord is. I used to think He was #1 until I took a good look at my daily itinerary. 2) Don't allow your emotions to control your attitude about yourself. Our emotions are the devil's playground when we first come to Christ. Study Ephesians 6:10-18 and apply Paul's instructions to your life on a daily basis.

SLE
 
i pray that these words help

For this cause we also, since the day we heard [it], do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding;

That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God;

Strengthened with all might, according to his glorious power, unto all patience and with joyfulness;

Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:

Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated [us] into the kingdom of his dear Son:

In whom we have redemption through his blood, [even] the forgiveness of sins:
If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.

Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.

For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.

When Christ, [who is] our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.

Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:

For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:

In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.

But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.

Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;

And have put on the new [man], which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.
all these words are in the book of colossians, chapters 1,2,3.
 
Dear all

Thank you to all who reply to my post, and for the advice.

I still need help , coz I feel like my life is falling apart, and also I feel so far away from god. and I get this feeling that I'm going to hell , I feel so down coz my life is in a mess, I know god cares , but right now , thing are so hard , and I feel like I'm failing everyday , please can you pray that I will get back on track with God , and that I see his light. :unlove::helppc:


p.s , I do have a very good relationship with Jesus


Greetings sister,

I like that p.s of yours.... so let's build on that. Take your good relation-ship and sail into His care and all He says to you and about you, and if you feel the sea is rough, just remember that He is the Captain!

Bless you, I will be praying, even now, in Jesus name for you as you are His very own beloved child.... He might even tell me not to worry, because He loves you and of course He is caring for you... so I might get a smack in the ear for suggesting that He isn't looking after you enough!

Thank you Lord for all your great love for our sister, your child Lord. Thank you for all you do always for her. I pray she can listen to you and find peace in you and confidence in your love and everlasting care, that she knows without any doubt that you have forgiven her and are coming again to take her unto yourself as with all your children Lord.

Lord, Let us rebuke the devil and his dirty lies.... for he has no place in our sister's life. Bless you Jesus... and thank you...amen.
 
Well, I guess that maybe these feelings have been going on for a while? The bottom line is to ask yourself, regarding why God feels so far away: Who moved? Me, or God? God is unchanging, so He didn't move. You might have. Take an honest inventory of your life. Is there anything in it that is not pleasing to God? If you are not sure, ask Him. I've done this myself and was surprised by the answers I got.
I was starting a bible study on spiritual warfare and I didn't want the enemy to have any foothold in my life, so I prayed and asked God if there was anything in my life that was not pleasing to Him, that could be used as a foothold against me, anything that might separate our relationship, or was not good for me. He answered me surprisingly fast. Immediately what came to mind was: a bag of books in the corner of my bedroom that my mother gave me to read (romance, which I had given up before then because of the content) but I still had them in my house, I was prompted to look on the floor of my closet (where I found some really old romance books hiding), and get rid of any rated R movies that I had. The threw out the books, was surprised when I looked in my closet and found those other books, threw them out, and then went to my DVD collection... I figured I had maybe 5 rated r movies. Then I started checking them to find the rating on each one, and I had over 20. Some of them just had bad language or were kind of violent and were rated r, and I was tempted to keep them because there was no nudity. But as I thought it through, I realized that by asking God if there was anything in my life that did not please Him, God did His part by telling what they were. I had to follow through and get them out of my life. If I did not follow through, it would become a sin. It wasn't necessarily a sin before, but it would definitely be one now. It would be disobedient to God to keep something that He said not to. And don't forget- I asked Him, He didn't just tell me to get rid of something, I asked Him if I should get rid of anything, so it was for my good.
Maybe that's going on in your life, I don't know. It is worth checking out.

If that isn't it, I could be way off base, I would recommend reading the book of Job. He was afflicted, he suffered, he felt separated from God and he hadn't done anything wrong. The book of Hosea also talks about being in the wilderness (separated from God). This may be a 'wilderness' time for you.
Even though you may not feel like it, make it a point to have daily quiet time with God. Even though it feels as if He isn't listening, talk to Him anyway. When you are done being in the wilderness, your relationship with God will be so much stronger!

Jeremiah 29: 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
 
For Christ: I know that what I've posted will help you; not because I'm smart, but because relationship with God is so powerful and I've used what I said for twenty-five years.

As my AA friends say, "It works IF you work it!" Try what I suggested for 30 days.

SLE
 
Prayer is talking to God through Jesus Christ our Lord. AKA God our Savior . Talk to Him, lean on Him . Learn of Me , Jesus said. The Bible is your key. Keep your soul close to it and Learn of Him . That simple . Call upon the Lord.
 
Hi All
sorry if I'm not posting in the right place, but I'm new-ish to posting.
But. I feel like my life is falling apart, I'm lost from god and I feel like I'm failing at things in life , I really want god back in my life and to have a relationship with him , I'm fed up with the same old things that happen in my life , I want my life to chage , and I'm fed up of being hurt in life , I know god loves me and wants me to be his child (so I've be told ??)

please can you pray for me guys , coz I want my life back on track and to have god back in my life.

thanks.

greeting
a poet words
the mind, like the picture of my life
my emotions, feel like the waves of the ocean
but my faith, can't fail when I feel things are apart I go into my room feeling somewhat solitude, but that's ok because no one can hurt me, I Iook out my window, I look up I see the beautiful stars and say in my heart Lord can you see me, Oh Lord I don't want to go backward in my life

Then suddenly the Lord looks out his window, who is that calling me, then he saw me and he said to me read this to me, incline my ears for your words are heard

Dear Lord Jesus,

I realize I am a sinner,

I repent of my sins and right this moment

I receive you as my Lord and Savior, and I give thanks for your love for me.

Psalms 142:1-3 I cry out to the Lord with my voice; With my voice to the LORD, I make my supplication. I pour out my complaint before Him; I declare before Him my trouble. When my spirit was overwhelmed within me,

Psalms 107:28-31 Then they cry out to the Lord in their trouble, And He brings them out of their distresses. He calms the storm So that its waves are still. Then they are glad because they are quiet; So He guides them to their desired haven. Oh, those men would give thanks to the Lord for His goodness, And for His wonderful works to the children of men!

Dan 9:18 (NKJV) O my God, incline Your ear and hear; open Your eyes and see our desolations, and the city which is called by Your name; for we do not present our supplications before You because of our righteous deeds, but because of Your great mercies.
A - Men


As I read these words daily my emotions, feeling like the waves of uplifting I just keep praying words of the Lord, my relationship with him was established, but the secret is to let him know how much I love Him, by praying always in the word daily as for those who try to hurt me, I knew the Lord was with me, my prayer protect me my faith was established in this case is established don't lose faith
these will happen
 
praying in Jesus name! I agree, spend time in His word and in prayer! That is how the relationship happens!
 
the enemy is attacking many right now, so don't let what he does count for anything, "get behind me satan in the name of Jesus Christ" when those thoughts come near and put on the armor of God every day!!
 
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