Re: Christian Friends - the making of relationships
When I first came to Christ, I had a gigantic inferiority complex. I honestly felt that if I died before my wife did, she would have to hire pallbearers to carry my body out of the funeral parlor.
However, through a 12-step program, I learned the secret to making friends: You just put out your hand and say, "Hello, my name is..........." You don't need to prepare fore a ten-minute conversation. Just introduce yourself with a smile and then let the other person go free. Don't try to force the other person to talk.
I tried it at my church. I volunteered to be a greeter at Sunday services for a couple of months, opening doors for people entering the building and introducing myself as they approached. It worked! It really did! Not every introduction blossomed into a friendship. Its a numbers game. I'd say at most 20% of the people I shook hands with over that period became true friends. But, I shook a lot of hands and wouind up with a bunch of friends.
It doesn't have to be scary. It doesn't have to be a big deal. Keep it simple.
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