Daily Bread (Avoiding The Greener Grass)

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Avoiding The Greener Grass

Let each one of you . . . so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. —Ephesians 5:33

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Nancy Anderson says she grew lukewarm in her faith and thus believed the world’s lie: “I deserve to be happy.” This led to an extramarital affair that nearly ended her marriage. She wrote her book Avoiding The Greener Grass Syndrome to help keep her painful story of infidelity from “becoming someone else’s story.”

In her book, Nancy offers six action suggestions on how to build “hedges” to protect your marriage and to help make “a good marriage great”:

Hear—give a listening ear to your spouse.
Encourage—build up your spouse by focusing on positive qualities.
Date—celebrate your marriage by playing and laughing together.
Guard—establish safeguards by setting clear boundaries.
Educate—study your mate to truly understand him or her.
Satisfy—meet each other’s needs.

The grass on the other side of the fence may look greener, but faithfulness to God and commitment to your spouse alone bring peace of mind and satisfaction.

When you avoid the greener-grass syndrome by loving and respecting your spouse, your marriage will be a picture of Christ and His church to those around you (Ephesians 5:31-32). —Anne Cetas

When you look at someone else’s life,
Thinking that it’s better than your own,
Just remember what God’s given you
Was designed for you alone. —Hess

Jesus Christ is the only third party in a marriage who can make it work.

 

[stephen]

Next Tuesday 29 August my wife Brenda and I will celebrate 40 years of marriage. Both of us successful in secular life, also having spent some years in full time ministry, and both of us I am sure having faced what might have seemed 'the green grass' of pleasure.

We rejoice today, that we have remained true to the 'wife,husband' of our youth. Amen. it is in the later years of human life that one can really appreciate the hand of God.

To God be the praise.

 

[SpiritLedEd]

Stephen:

Your post reminds me of what I once heard the late E.V. Hill say about marriage. He said that when he and his wife got married, they decided to view marriage as the two of them walking into a room that has no windows and only one door and there is no inside door handle on the door; the message being that "Now that we're in here, there's no getting out!"

SLE