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God tested me and idk if I passed.

Ayla.A✝️

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Hey, so recently I feel as though God has tested my faith and loyalty to him through love. Let me explain... I met this kind, loving, respectful boy, turns out his is Muslim. From day one he knew that I was catholic but that I was born into the Islamic religion but chose to be catholic. We went on dates he was very respectful, didn’t hug or kiss me until I was completely comfortable. But then he started asking if I’d convert. At first I was a strong no. But he was slick with his works telling me things all women want to hear. I want to marry you, you’ll be a amazing mother and my family will approve if you convert. I feel bad for questioning my faith in God. God has given me so much and I was considering abandoning my faith for a guy. The thoughts of converting we fleeting because I realised no matter how much someone loved me they wouldn’t Interfere with my relationship with the Lord. He ended up breaking up with me because I refused to convert and his family didn’t like that. He loves me and wants to be with me but ended our relationship to please his family. God bless x
 
No you didn’t pass. You are not supposed to even have fellowship with a unbeliever! This is making you more acceptable for the real trap. You do not play with fire or matches. You get burnt, and burns leaves scars that cannot be wipe away. God does not temp you, the Devil does. And he just got your number. Now tear it up and stop going down dark alleys and playing “Little Ms. Red Ridding Hood”!
And be safe.
 
Whether you passed or not - that is for God to judge - you survived, and you are here and you still have your trust in God.

Peter had a great test, 'would he deny Jesus?' And he failed it three time in spectacular style. Jesus restored him and commissioned him to great things.

So, learn from your mistakes, repent of you failings, give thanks to God and follow Jesus.
 
(James 1).
13When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. 15Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.

You play with fire, you will get burnt!
(Proverbs 6).
27Can a man take fire in his bosom, And his clothes not be burned?

28Or can one walk upon hot coals, And his feet not be scorched?


Stay on the path, by keeping His Word and walk in it, turning not to the left or right.
 
Hey, so recently I feel as though God has tested my faith and loyalty to him through love. Let me explain... I met this kind, loving, respectful boy, turns out his is Muslim. From day one he knew that I was catholic but that I was born into the Islamic religion but chose to be catholic. We went on dates he was very respectful, didn’t hug or kiss me until I was completely comfortable. But then he started asking if I’d convert. At first I was a strong no. But he was slick with his works telling me things all women want to hear. I want to marry you, you’ll be a amazing mother and my family will approve if you convert. I feel bad for questioning my faith in God. God has given me so much and I was considering abandoning my faith for a guy. The thoughts of converting we fleeting because I realised no matter how much someone loved me they wouldn’t Interfere with my relationship with the Lord. He ended up breaking up with me because I refused to convert and his family didn’t like that. He loves me and wants to be with me but ended our relationship to please his family. God bless x
Sometimes PloughBoy must think he was perfect growing up .. :) Yes it was a mistake i pray the lesson was learned and it will not happen again.


PloughBoy

rightfully says "Stay on the path, by keeping His Word and walk in it, turning not to the left or right.

Hekuran says

So, learn from your mistakes, repent of you failings, give thanks to God and follow Jesus.

Good Godly advice
 
Yes , you were probably being tested. Nothing wrong with that. You saw somethings that you needed to see.

I'm not surprised he broke up with you -- Muslim people prefer their families to marry within Their faith.

Everyone should marry within their faith.

The RCC is usually like that , too. Marry within the RCC church.

Born-again believers should do the same thing.

Some years ago one of my nieces daughters was in high school. She met a muslim guy also a Senior. My great niece is a very attractive / smart young lady. Unfortunatly she got pregnant by the guy. He broke off the relationship when he found out that she was pregnant. They decided to keep very low profile -- she wasn't showing until after graduation. They had socialized a little with the guys parents. He enlisted in the military as soon as he graduated. As far as they know , his parents never found out about the pregnancy.
 
@PloughBoy -- who's posts are you reading? Looking back it was the comment that Hekuron made about dating the Muslim guy. So -- now you're saying that she was being rebellious for having dated the guy. You certainly are quick to make judgements based on nothing. She dated the guy she shouldn't have. He realized the relationship wouldn't work out cause she was RCC and he's Muslim. So you decide to jump down her throat. My , what a loving attitude to display.
 
I did not jump down her throat, Read her post. In her post in context she admitted she was “rebellious”. She a Christian, she knows what she did was wrong. God said go north. She went south. Believe me a know “Muslims” I live in Michigan. I grew up with them, and she said she was almost “Persuaded ”

.she went hard at it, and I went straight at it. That is what you call “Agape”.
 
I know, a lot think I am hard. Sometimes the word hits like a hammer then at other times it is like a double edge sword. It cuts both ways. Cutting also the one who also sways it.
But thank God for the “Healing Oil” of comfort of the Spirit of The Living God. For there are many times, I have cut myself.
 
Ayla.A First ( Rom 8:1) Next ,a word the Lord once gave me,that I know will help so many!! Understand that every single believer after becoming a believer always has some problems remaining loyal!( Matt 26:56) for one example. Even John went back to his old life!( John 21:3-6) Through all this knowledge we have received through his word,this can still present a problem for all of us!!

A few years back I sought the Lord in prayer over this very serious matter. Here is what I received from Holy Spirit inside of me." My son,as you are well aware of that many of my people are( Hosea 4:6) ( he quoted this) Knowledge obtained is only a treasure when one holds fast the treasure I have given to each person( Rom 12:3)" He then went silent for a bit, and while he was, I stated this. Lord I know you love me,my problem is believing that I truly love you,Lord I make so many mistakes daily,and it makes me mad knowing better!!

How do I know that I truly love you?? I went to sleep,and about 1 or 1:20 am a giant billboard appeared in my mindset, it said Proverbs 8:17) It woke me right out of bed!!! LOL I went to my Bible to see what this said( Proverbs 8:17)I LOVE those who love me!!! a promise! The Lord knows our heart, did you forget this my son??( 1 Samuel 16:7) FEAR NOT, ONLY BELIEVE!!!!!( Mark 5:36-43) Notice Jesus only took those who believed as he did concerning this death of a child! ( Heb 10:19-23) Finally my favorite prayer!!( Jude 1:20-25) May every blessing always find you,and always find you most well in,by, and through his very Spirit amen!
 
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