Gods plan maybe, maybe not

[Calabazaa]

This may sound naïve ( I think that's the correct word) But im trying so hard to find love, Im young and I shouldn't push, I know I will be placed with someone who loves me when the time is right. God does have a plan for everyone. Now.. there is this boy I met him in the summer (july) I only met him once, I felt so connected to him he was so easy to talk to and it was just wonderful there was something about him.. I brushed it off the next day because... well we live very very very far apart. We started texting the day after and we have texted everyday since, and in that I mean EERYDAY minus 2 or 3 days. And while I went to Ghana to do a volunteer trip, we made sure to facebook. We have mailed each other gifts and we talk about everything send photos of our daily events.. and I pray to God, I ask him to show me and only allow me and said guy to see each other again if that who im meant to be with. I don't know if anyone has herd of Nick vujicic, But his book is what inspired me to put all my trust into God when it come to dealing with every aspect of life... even love. We have tried to plan out seeing each other, but it has all fallen through.. Im holding on though, I believe the Lord has herd me, and when the time is right, if the connection that I felt was real, me and said guy will meet again. Im just going to keep praying and thanking the Lord every step of the way for helping me to understand that he has a plan, no matter how much time it takes to figure out that plan.

 

[Eddy Fire]

hi again sister

can i say just one little thing to you and to your friend
put the Lord first
both fully and honestly put Jesus first even before yourselves and each other and let Him be the subject of your love to Him and to each other
love and peace with grace to you both in Jeus name

 

[tirapet]

That doesn't sound naïve at all! Everyone wants to find "the one" and wonders if it's God's will if they're meant to be with someone. I'm still trying to figure that one out myself, so you're not alone! And I think everyone feels the rush to find love. It takes lots of praying and peace to not push for love (especially when it's such a big issue on your mind along with media pressures and messages).

Communication is key in all relationships. And you two sound like you rock at it.

You have a good plan already. Keep doing it.

Im just going to keep praying and thanking the Lord every step of the way for helping me to understand that he has a plan, no matter how much time it takes to figure out that plan.

So I have two suggestions: have patience and see what time allows or act either by stepping the relationship up or somehow move closer to each other (I don't know you so I have no idea how possible or impossible this seems...so maybe college/after college/etc.). Skype?
And you've talked to him about your thoughts concerning this matter?

There's always hope for the future. If there's a way you two can work it out, great! But remember face-to-face time is a big part of a relationship. Trust in God. Don't give up hope, and keep praying!