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Growing Old

lentz

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You know you’re old,when the little old gray haired lady you helped across the street,is your wife.

Ecclesiates 12 is one biblical truth everyone is to experience,whether lost or saved.
I find myself looking in the mirror,and thinking when I see Adam,I would punch him in the mouth.
 
I will tell Adam thank you for not choosing any of the animals to be his help meet.

Gen 2:20 So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.
 
There are just so many advantages to being old....I just can't remember any of them. I like that one. It always makes me smile.
 
Wouldn't it be sad if we only lived and died like insects and fungi? I mean, what
would be the point of it all?

By believing in a supreme being, your life means something after all. It counts in
some way when there's a God; and it gives people a hope for the future after
they're destroyed by old age and death. Wouldn't it be far better to perceive
yourself part of a grand scheme instead of walking across the stage of your all too
brief life as an insignificant speck in a pointless cosmos? Just a drop of pigment in
a bucket of paint?

God has another Genesis in the works for mankind. Yes, a whole new earth and a
whole new universe minus all the negative aspects of the current one.

"For, behold, I create new heavens and a new earth: and the former shall not be
remembered, nor come into mind." (Isa 65:17-25)

"According to His promise we are looking for new heavens and a new earth, in
which righteousness dwells." (2 Pet 3:13)

"I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth
passed away" (Rev 21:1-6)

As my wife and I decline and wax older and older, we feel sadness for the loss of
our youth. There was a time when we were both bright-eyed and bushy-tailed and
could get by with very little rest. The skin on our face, and under our chin, was
tight, and our middles were lean and defined. Today in our seventies and approaching
eighty, we're sag-bottomed and flaccid.

The great cowboy artist Charles Russell once lamented that time traded him
wrinkles for teeth. Me too. I've lost teeth, some are capped, and my gums have
receded. The teeth that remain have become so fragile that I have to be careful

not to bite down on something hard.

Believing that there is a supreme being, and a future world, lifts our spirits and
strengthens us to cope with aging and the onset of death. We have promise of a
great, eternal future out ahead in a world where youth is the norm, and no one dies
or gets sick.

Even if we are totally wrong in our belief, my wife and I are far better off than "the
man under the sun" who has resigned himself to futility; to live out his pointless
existence with no more importance than an alley cat or a feral dog; to die and be
recycled back into the matrix from whence he came; the meanwhile suppressing a
gnawing anxiety in the back of his mind that there just might be an afterlife after
all.
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Ecc 12:1 . . So appreciate your vigor in the days of your youth, before those days
of sorrow come and those years arrive of which you will say: I have no pleasure in
them.

Most people cope pretty well with middle age, and old age too-- as long as they're
in good health, their mind is sound and, they have the right attitude. But nobody
does very well with advanced age.

Your bowels won't work right, you'll be incontinent and smell bad; diverticulitis
causes blood in your stools, your skin will be thin and easily torn, blue veins pop
out on your legs and on the backs of your hands, you won't see things unless
they're right under your nose, your sense of smell will be weak right along with
your sense of taste. Savory foods will taste like cardboard and your stomach can't
deal with them anyway.

No more hiking, no more bicycle rides, no more airplane trips, and very little travel.
Walking, if you're able to walk at all, will really be little more than a shuffle of slow,
flat footed, jerky little short steps rather than a brisk fluid stroll.

Ecc 12:2 . . before sun and light and moon and stars grow dark, and the clouds
come back again after the rain:

Often, as people get older and their health begins to fail, friends will ask: Hey,
how's ol' so and so doing? And someone will say: Oh, he has his good days and he
has his bad days. Well, eventually ol' so and so will have only his bad days and no
good days ever again.

Ecc 12:3a . .When the keepers of the house become shaky,

Keeping house requires the use of one's hands for mopping, dusting, and doing
laundry and dishes. Aged people's hands tremble. They can't hold anything steady.
In fact, they have so little strength and dexterity left in their hands that they can't
grasp anything securely; so they drop stuff a lot.

Ecc 12:3b . . And the men of valor are bent,

Those in advanced age, even if they were once proud Olympic athletes, can't stand
up straight and keep their shoulders back anymore. Older people get bent and
hunched. They shrink too, and some practically curl over like a question mark.

Ecc 12:3c . . the grinding ones stand idle because they are few,

Before the advent of dentures and professional dental care, people commonly lost
their teeth from decay and gum disease. As they got older, people lost more and
more teeth until the day came when there finally weren't enough teeth left in their
mouth to bite off food and chew it. Foods like grains, meats, and many crispy fresh
fruits and vegetables were simply out of the question; so they had to eat mushy
foods, foods that were overcooked; or that didn't require a lot of biting and
chewing. There's still a lot of that in third world countries.

Ecc 12:3d . . and those that look through the windows grow dim,

Cataracts are a common ailment among the aged. It's a cruel condition because it
clouds the eye's lens thus preventing full passage of light to the retina. When I had
my own cataracts treated, I was amazed. Not only was the world a whole lot
brighter, but colors were more vivid too. But back in Solomon's day, there was no
treatment for cataracts; so people's eyesight just waxed worse and worse as time
went on to the point where they could no longer even get around on their own or
even so much as recognize familiar friends.

Ecc 12:4a . . And the doors to the street are shut--

The doors are shut because aged people get chilled easily by drafts. Riding on a city
transit bus once, in the dead of summer in San Diego, some senior citizens shut my
window because the air blowing in was making them cold even though the rest of
us on board were broiling in the heat.
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Psa 92:14 [Growing in grace] they shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be full of sap [of spiritual vitality] and [rich in the] verdure [of trust, love, and contentment]. (AMP)
 
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Ecc 12:4b . . with the noise of the hand mill growing fainter, and the song of the
bird growing feebler, and all the strains of music dying down;

I've lost some of my hearing in the higher and lower ranges. It's natural and to be
expected at my age which to date is nigh unto 80. Hearing aids help a lot so we don't
have to yell so loud at aged folks in order for them to hear us. Just imagine not being
able to enjoy your favorite music; or straining to hear ordinary conversation.

Ecc 12:5a . .When one is afraid of heights

We can fall aplenty when we're young and get away with it. Our joints are tight and
strong, our ligaments are taught and springy, our bones are solid and tough, and
we can handle all the bumps and bruises life throws at us. But not so when we
reach advanced age. Falls, even little falls, are extremely hazardous; and can even
be fatal.

Every now and then the news runs a story of an aged person who stumbled and fell
at home and broke a hip; and couldn't even reach the telephone to call for help;
sometimes laying there for days until the landlord or relatives checked in on them.
I knew an aged lady who's broken hip actually caused her death. Her body was so
weak already from fighting cancer that the broken hip put her over the edge.

Ecc 12:5b . . And there is fear on the road.

Back in Solomon's day, people didn't move about cocooned in the safety and
comfort of a shell of metal and glass like many of us do today in modern motorized
vehicles. Well; they didn't have inoculations for pneumonia back then so the aged
were always in danger of literally catching their death outdoors due to exposure to
wind, rain, cold, and dampness.

Back in 1966, I drove up to Oregon from San Diego all alone in a VW and slept in
the car at night rather than pay for a motel. I was only 22 years old then and
totally unconcerned for my safety. Today at my age I would not even think of such
a venture; too risky, any number of things could go wrong which, back then, I
wouldn't have given a second thought.
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Every now and then the news runs a story of an aged person who stumbled and fell
at home and broke a hip; and couldn't even reach the telephone to call for help;
sometimes laying there for days until the landlord or relatives checked in on them.
I knew an aged lady who's broken hip actually caused her death. Her body was so
weak already from fighting cancer that the broken hip put her over the edge.

 
I find it interesting that the vast majority of people God used in the Bible were past 50 years of age.
Before Genesis 6, many were several hundred years old. Many of the books written by the Apostles were written after they were 50.
Abraham and Sarah had their first child at what age?
How old was Noah when the Ark was completed.
How old was Moses when he led the Jews through the wilderness?
How old was Paul when he wrote many of his books?
 
I find it interesting that the vast majority of people God used in the Bible were past 50 years of age.
Before Genesis 6, many were several hundred years old. Many of the books written by the Apostles were written after they were 50.
Abraham and Sarah had their first child at what age?
How old was Noah when the Ark was completed.
How old was Moses when he led the Jews through the wilderness?
How old was Paul when he wrote many of his books?
I would guess that as we get older, and our bodies become less able to do the things we once did with more ease, we find we must depend on the Lord more to make up for our increasing weakness. In our weakness, He is made strong.
 
I would guess that as we get older, and our bodies become less able to do the things we once did with more ease, we find we must depend on the Lord more to make up for our increasing weakness. In our weakness, He is made strong.

Almost a death bed repentance.
Almost
 
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Ecc 12:13-14 . .The sum of the matter, when all is said and done: Revere God
and observe His commandments! For this applies to all mankind: that God will call
every creature to account for everything unknown, be it good or bad.

My kid brother decided very early that he was going to live life on his own terms
and not let religion get in his way because there was some things he wanted to do.

He passed away at 71 back in March 2016 of pancreatic cancer and to my
knowledge stayed the course and never changed his mind: leaving me behind with
anxiety, worried about his afterlife destination.

But my brother's decision wasn't due to ignorance. We were both raised Catholics, so
he knew the risk but apparently figured taking the risk was worth it so long as he
got what he wanted. It saddens me to think that my brother survived 71 years in this
life to old age only to end up on the wrong side of things in the next; and it's not like
he didn't have plenty of time to think about it.
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