heartbroken...

[Shell84]

I've spent the last year with the most awesome guy but he'd never commit to me, All our kids got a long well and i lived with him for around 7 months then got my own place as we weren't married etc. I love him he was my life, we spent most days together, went away together, we just got along so well. But we kept doing stuff that was not exceptable so he freaked out last week and said what we had has to stop, And that he'd like persue something with a friend of his (non christian). I was so upset and heart broken. We are still friends and he is taking things real slow with this other lady as his not sure its going to go. He has said i'm always welcome at his home and that he doesn't want to loss my friendship. He heald me the other day as i cried coz i missed him so much. I don't how to let go of him, and not have that feeling to go see him all the time. It hurts so much my whole mind is consumed by him. I am trying to get my comfort from God but its just not going away....
How do i get through this..i Have 2 kids that i have to try and be a mum too

 

[::PreciousinChrist::]

Dear Shell84,

Having being "consumed by him", tells me that you have made him a "god" in your life. You have basically put that guy in the place of God.

So you must ask God to forgive you for the sin of idolatry and for many other things which you did with the guy.Recieve His forgiveness by faith and move on.There is definitely healing and comfort in Forgiveness.

But make sure, after that...you give the LORD the first place in your life and not the guy, which involves keeping distance practically. Hard, but you CAN do it (Phil 4:13)

Leaving these scriptures with you, that you may do accordingly:

Exodus 20:3
2 Cor 10:5
2 Tim 2:22

God bless you
PRE