Husband and son don’t speak

[Brightstar4242]

Please pray in Jesus name for them to get along

 

[PloughBoy]

ok, age of son.

 

[Brightstar4242]

18

 

[PloughBoy]

i understand Father and son. i have three oldest one died about 2016 he was 44, three grand sons from him 17,18,19
2nd oldest is 45 now
3rd 30.

had my time with each one. The 3rd is smarter than everybody especially me. do not want to hear anything i say. I did more for him than the rest.. LOL
just keep telling your son to love him anyway, Just tell him he is your father. no explanation . and let them work it out from there. Tell the father that is your son.

 

[Brightstar4242]

Been doing that

 

[PloughBoy]

Been doing that

now , give it to God and let God work it out.

 

[Brightstar4242]

It’s been 2 years

 

[PloughBoy]

My 2nd oldest said to me one day, He said daddy you told me one day when we was arguing the best thing i can do for you. I said what was that? he said: I said; "I'm going to cut you loose and give you to God! He told me that was best thing that a father could give to a son. I said daddy i love you.

the young one has told me he hate me. LOL, i have gave him to GOD. I don't know about that one. like his mother they like that money, and they go for it! worshippers i think investments books. "Millionaires" go getters.

 

[Brightstar4242]

Ok all I can do is keep praying

 

[PloughBoy]

The only thing i can think of why he does not like me, I always would get on him about cleaning his room and putting dishes in dishwasher, and cutting the grass in which i paid him well, Cleaning His Bathroom, which also had a regular laundry room with full size washer and dryer in it. I just could not understand why was the inside of his washing machine would be dirty. and his bath room had "mutants' growing in there, which i had to clean, wife never clean or venture that way. Maybe it is one of those things " Jacob and Esau", "Sarah and Hagar", Ismael and Isaac". "David and Absalom" I think it is hard for us to realize they belong to God and not us. He created them. and He knows where they come from and where they are going. He told us how to raise them, that is what we will give account for. We cannot make them do anything. That is why we must read the whole bible, there are stories about God's characters and their children, throughout out the "Bible" and related Characters children. Children hurts the heart, when you think about their soul.

 

[Hekuran]

Ok all I can do is keep praying

Praying for you and your family. Such a difficult situation. Can I ask, is it both father and son refusing to speak, or just one of them?