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I need prayer, I just started a new job and I see my boss is abusive. Lord help me deal w her.

PatriciaV

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I need help w dealing w this woman, she is mean and very abusive. My team members are afraid of her, I pray that God give me the strength to deal w her. I don't want to have so much anxiety at work
 
Glad to pray for you, that God would help you in the way best (which isn't always in the way we want) for you.
 
PatriciaV,This hard lesson,I had to learn, I will pass on to you. NEVER!!!! And I mean never say one bad thing about your boss to those under you,I assure you ,it will get back to her! Gossip is as we all know is a large problem at most job sites. Do your job as best you can,and lead by example to the others,that is why you are over them to start with sis.If your team members wonder at why you do not say anything bad,and why you will not allow the obvious among the crew, who agree very much with you, to speak bad about her,you can tell them I am not here to judge those i work under,i am here to perform my duties the same way you are to do your duty,to cause those above you to shine,so that the company shines.

And so, one day one can be placed in greater authority to better the company. If you choose not to do this,you, as well as those below you will suffer a severe consequence,because you have placed your feeling above,what you are getting paid to perform.

I know this is tough!! When I had the very same problem, only with a male,I got promoted 2 months later,and those who had been with the company far longer did not, because they gave in to the feeling of both themselves and others.You are not there to be loved,you are there to become respected,and bring results! You will be tempted often,espically if your boss looks to make you look bad in front of others,do not bite!! They are watching your reaction as well!!

YOU sister are a leader!! Leaders lead. What helped me greatly is to remember how Jesus looked to teach his disciples.( Heb 10:36) if you have nothing to endure,how then can we mature? Rewards come to those who can endure,no matter our feeling. We endure sister to receive two things! 1.You out last the enemy!!,( Rom 8:31) and 2. You know Jesus will reward your faith in him!!( Heb 11:6) Ask Job! hehe I know it is not fair sis,life is never fair,but you can make a difference,the question is WILL YOU understand how to endure? I can tell you dear sister,that this lesson did wonders for me! My prayers are of course with you,and for you!!
 
I need help w dealing w this woman, she is mean and very abusive. My team members are afraid of her, I pray that God give me the strength to deal w her. I don't want to have so much anxiety at work

John 16 verse 33 - I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world.
 
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