It’s like I believe the right things. I have heard submit and surrender but that seems like a work.
Dear Rock,
First welcome to Talk Jesus an online community of Christian believers!
I truly hope you will find fellowship, and growth in God's Word while you are here!
You have a great group of Brothers & Sisters in Christ Jesus that will help as the Holy Spirit moves them to!
Now to answer one particular statement you made which I quoted above.
It is work, because God made you anew through believing in His Son Jesus Christ a Creation that you might do good works!
Therefore, if anyone [is] in Christ, [he is] a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. 2 Corinthians 5:17 NKJV
For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. Ephesians 2:10 NKJV
Too often people want the Salvation, but still want to go their own way, and do their own things (sin). God did not Sacrifice His Son so that you can continue to sin, but rather to repair a broken relationship with humanity, so that they wouldn't have to sin which is what has kept us from having a relationship with God in the first place! So, is it work? Yes, but now in Christ Jesus you're not doing it alone!!! You have all the help necessary to be an overcomer.
But thanks [be] to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:57 NKJV
For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world--our faith. 1 John 5:4 NKJV
Which brings to mind one of my favorite Scripture Verses

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I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the [life] which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me. Galatians 2:20 NKJV
So, you are no longer living for selfish reasons, but are living for Jesus who gave His all that you might be united with a Living, Loving, God! Alleluia!
Now, if you still consider this "work", then think on it as a Labor of Love! He our Lord & Savior gave His all, and there is little enough that we can do to show that we appreciate it!
Have to go Brother!
I will be praying that whatever burden you are carrying that you will be released from it and be all the stronger for it!!!
Keep the faith!!
With the Love of Christ Jesus, once again be welcomed!!!
YBIC
Nick
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