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I just proposed to my girlfriend last week, which was a great moment but currently I feel so alone. I usually rarely feel alone. I have everything. I don't have anyone else really in my life, other than my mother, my brother barely (he needs prayers) and my girlfriend. My dad who doesn't live with us and lives in another city in the next county likes and comments on some Facebook posts and I have an older elderly friend named Benjamin but that is about it. I spend time with God daily, so it's just strange that I'm feeling so lonely right now. I think the enemy is trying to mess with my confidence, not sure. If you all can pray for me, I'd appreciate it. I think I need community.
 
I just proposed to my girlfriend last week, which was a great moment but currently I feel so alone. I usually rarely feel alone. I have everything. I don't have anyone else really in my life, other than my mother, my brother barely (he needs prayers) and my girlfriend. My dad who doesn't live with us and lives in another city in the next county likes and comments on some Facebook posts and I have an older elderly friend named Benjamin but that is about it. I spend time with God daily, so it's just strange that I'm feeling so lonely right now. I think the enemy is trying to mess with my confidence, not sure. If you all can pray for me, I'd appreciate it. I think I need community.
Heyllo,
Hope alls well I get what ya r saying it's just me hubby n pup we r in Oklahoma we r from Philadelphia I have n aunt here but I seen her once in four yrs she's just to busy I guess my parents live in NJ my pop hasn't talked to me in yrs he's not a phone person talk to my mom couple times a week got a sister but she too concerned about housewives from somewhere to even wanna pick up a phone got one younger lady I tall to once a week hubby has absolutely no friends lol he has two sisters n one brother but unfortunately they r drunks n hubby won't deal with that n I can't blame him his parents passed yrs ago..
We spend our days with our Judah primarily.. we don't go out unless absolutely necessary 98.99 percent of the time..

I have come to find tho that this is a blessing we have all the time we want to spend with the Lord I spend lots of time with the Lord pondering talking to Him asking questions n a lot of crying out too..

But I wouldn't change anything the peace that we have is nothing like anything I have ever experienced..

The Lord separates His children from the world He really does..

Even when He walked in the flesh he did so

And Jesus going up to Jerusalem took the twelve disciples apart in the way

And straightway Jesus constrained his disciples to get into a ship, and to go before him unto the other side, while he sent the multitudes away.

He pulls us aside to teach us what we need to learn to clean the filth of the world off us

I use to think this peace was boredom but I have learned differently..

(⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

 
I hope she said yes, bro. Also, keyword: community. Websites like this one are proof of this need. I sympathize with your empathy. I think we're primarily sensing the non-Christians despair.
 
Heyllo,
Hope alls well I get what ya r saying it's just me hubby n pup we r in Oklahoma we r from Philadelphia I have n aunt here but I seen her once in four yrs she's just to busy I guess my parents live in NJ my pop hasn't talked to me in yrs he's not a phone person talk to my mom couple times a week got a sister but she too concerned about housewives from somewhere to even wanna pick up a phone got one younger lady I tall to once a week hubby has absolutely no friends lol he has two sisters n one brother but unfortunately they r drunks n hubby won't deal with that n I can't blame him his parents passed yrs ago..
We spend our days with our Judah primarily.. we don't go out unless absolutely necessary 98.99 percent of the time..

I have come to find tho that this is a blessing we have all the time we want to spend with the Lord I spend lots of time with the Lord pondering talking to Him asking questions n a lot of crying out too..

But I wouldn't change anything the peace that we have is nothing like anything I have ever experienced..

The Lord separates His children from the world He really does..

Even when He walked in the flesh he did so

And Jesus going up to Jerusalem took the twelve disciples apart in the way

And straightway Jesus constrained his disciples to get into a ship, and to go before him unto the other side, while he sent the multitudes away.

He pulls us aside to teach us what we need to learn to clean the filth of the world off us

I use to think this peace was boredom but I have learned differently..

(⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

/thanks for sharing @Twistie
 
I hope she said yes, bro. Also, keyword: community. Websites like this one are proof of this need. I sympathize with your empathy. I think we're primarily sensing the non-Christians despair.
She did say yes but then God revealed to me that maybe she isn't the one. Ultimately I am going to do God's will for my life but she still watches a lot secular movies and listens to a lot of secular music, so to me that is a red flag. God will guide us, whether that is to get married or go our separate ways and I am open to either way. It does make me realize how much I need community though.

I showed up on here maybe a month ago and upon seeing the talk Jesus emails and responses, I can tell that even though not a popular website, this website has a great community.
 
She did say yes but then God revealed to me that maybe she isn't the one. Ultimately I am going to do God's will for my life but she still watches a lot secular movies and listens to a lot of secular music, so to me that is a red flag. God will guide us, whether that is to get married or go our separate ways and I am open to either way. It does make me realize how much I need community though.

I showed up on here maybe a month ago and upon seeing the talk Jesus emails and responses, I can tell that even though not a popular website, this website has a great community.
Its like a lot of churches actually, some people who think they are smarter than everyone else, people who love to argue, some that are hard to even understand, but some people who contribute sometimes and care about others. If you are the last one listed, you will be an asset to the community.
 
Its like a lot of churches actually, some people who think they are smarter than everyone else, people who love to argue, some that are hard to even understand, but some people who contribute sometimes and care about others. If you are the last one listed, you will be an asset to the community.
I'll do what I'm called to do. I do agree with you though. Anyone who resembles Jesus is an asset.
 
She did say yes but then God revealed to me that maybe she isn't the one. Ultimately, I am going to do God's will for my life but she still watches a lot secular movies and listens to a lot of secular music, so to me that is a red flag. God will guide us, whether that is to get married or go our separate ways and I am open to either way. It does make me realize how much I need community though.
Both of you must remain prayerful. Also, none of us are good/perfect. I cannot excuse the behavior outside Church (the satanic governance of spiritual murder; lies as the news, taxes, cost of survival, etcetera). Keep in mind Christ's relationship with the Bride. She is worth dying for if you are worth following. You'll have to forgive yourself for not forgiving her on amusements Lol.

I digress on the secular bit here... Pro sports and the stock market and not being a Crusader are also sin if not what is rendered unto Caesar. You are subject to secular law and society and it's products. (That probably makes little sense right now). Stay with me here: You ain't perfect neither, bro lol! Stay with her.

What you described in your first sentence is the fear of doubt which is the opposite of faith. "Be not afraid." You already love each other to declare this commitment before God. Help each other prosper in the joy of the Lord the rest of your days, and we'll meet you in Heaven if not sooner lol

Remember when Genesis 1:26-30 took place.

My two mites as a married Christian man for anyone's consideration :innocent:
 
I just proposed to my girlfriend last week, which was a great moment but currently I feel so alone. I usually rarely feel alone. I have everything. I don't have anyone else really in my life, other than my mother, my brother barely (he needs prayers) and my girlfriend. My dad who doesn't live with us and lives in another city in the next county likes and comments on some Facebook posts and I have an older elderly friend named Benjamin but that is about it. I spend time with God daily, so it's just strange that I'm feeling so lonely right now. I think the enemy is trying to mess with my confidence, not sure. If you all can pray for me, I'd appreciate it. I think I need community.

Hope you find Love

It's the first thing that God declared as "not good". . . mankind to be alone. He made two out of one creation in a parable to represent Christ in us.

Yoked with him our daily suffering of loneliness can be lighter with a living hope beyond what the eyes see as two walking together.

Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him;(mankind) . . . male and female created he them. (The animal kingdom )

The Son of man Jesus if not for the Holy Father's love Jesus was the loneliest misunderstood person that ever walked. This is because without parables the gospel understanding he spoke not.

On one occasion (Luke 9) the Holy Father gave one parable after and the other hiding the gospel understanding from the other apostles. They became so confused they started "who is the greatest" Alfa Dog. Jesus the Son of man in arms reach. His own family wrote him off . The shortest verse "Jesus wept " at their misunderstanding of the parable. The man aquatinted with the fear of loneliness.

In that way two represents Christ has spoken through the Son of man, Jesus the prophet. I call them dynamic dual

God's design. Not good for mankind to be alone .

Another way to look is in regard to the prophecy of the bruising of the heel as the Holy Father strikes the Son of man . Made up of two prophecies, again two represents God has spoken a threefold cord is not quickly broke

Both Genesis 3:15 working with Isaiah 53 demonstrate the lamb that was slain from the foundation the six days the father did work The Holy Father crushing the head of the serpent bruising the heel of the Son of Man Jesus, by his wounds inflicted of the Holy Father we are healed by the Holy Father .

The promised three days and night demonstration of the witnesses (Genesis 3:15 with Isaiah 53 ) began in the garden of Gethsemane. There the Holy Father began pouring out his wrath and in suffering Jesus looked for strength in prayer from the other apostles. Three times to indicate the end of a matter the Holy Father put them to sleep to fulfil the prophecy of two working as one. Not three a crowd.

Then he awoke them, and they were moved to another kind of demonstration the hill or cross the crowd, then moved to the demonstration of tomb.

Three demonstrations. again, three denotes the end of a matter in parables
 
Both of you must remain prayerful. Also, none of us are good/perfect. I cannot excuse the behavior outside Church (the satanic governance of spiritual murder; lies as the news, taxes, cost of survival, etcetera). Keep in mind Christ's relationship with the Bride. She is worth dying for if you are worth following. You'll have to forgive yourself for not forgiving her on amusements Lol.

I digress on the secular bit here... Pro sports and the stock market and not being a Crusader are also sin if not what is rendered unto Caesar. You are subject to secular law and society and it's products. (That probably makes little sense right now). Stay with me here: You ain't perfect neither, bro lol! Stay with her.

What you described in your first sentence is the fear of doubt which is the opposite of faith. "Be not afraid." You already love each other to declare this commitment before God. Help each other prosper in the joy of the Lord the rest of your days, and we'll meet you in Heaven if not sooner lol

Remember when Genesis 1:26-30 took place.

My two mites as a married Christian man for anyone's consideration :innocent:
God guided me to continue this with her because of your reply. We even started praying for our future together “in Jesus name” which if none of you guys have done that before, praying together “in Jesus name” is one of the most intimate things I’ve ever been led to do with a woman.
 
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