Marital problems

[confusedhusband]

Here is my situation. My wife had a hysterectomy almost two years ago. I think October is two years. Here lately she is telling me she doesn't love me anymore. I am not what she wants anymore. She doesn't want this life anymore. Says she doesn't desire me sexually anymore but then there are days she does but says it means nothing. Says she is planning to leave me she has a lawyer. Is this normal? Anyone else relate to that? Just wish someone could tell me what is going on and that it will be okay and how long this will last. Also our finances are a wreck with student loans and credit card debt any financial assistance out there by chance? She is wanting a new house that I would love to provide but know we can't afford.. I am praying and believing God for a miracle. Anyone care to stand with me? Any words of wisdom?
Scripture? Anyone hearing from God on this and have something from him to tell me? Sorry to dump all this on y'all but I need help.
Sending this out to lots of people and hoping for a lot of replies. Please understand if you do respond it may take me a few days to get back to you because I work six days a week.

 

[RJ]

• Bible Scriptures on Rejoicing During Trials

James 1:2 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,1Peter 1:6 In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trialsRomans 12:12 Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.

• I am no doctor but have been married for 45 years and through many trials and tribulations.
• I can say this, when a woman goes through a hysterectomy, many suffer from a severe harmon imballance and can change them dramatically. If she is willing, you need to get her to a doctor for this common problem and maybe she is a candidate for hormone treatment. The doctor should be able to help/advise you on your marital problems or lead you in the right direction.
• Always remember this: God doesn't cause our problems but he sure allows them for our own growth: 2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.

 

[Brad Huber]

Dont know your situation from both ends, its easy to see things from only one point of view. But from your description, I would start getting things in order, she's gonna leave you looking to shop for another lover who will buy her more stuff. You might be better off without her. Scripture states that if an unbelieving wife wants to leave, to let her go. We are not to be unequally yoked.

 

[stephen]

Lord Jesus draw near to this situation, and bring them through it I pray......in Jesus