Godbehonored
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The stupid excuse is always characters are hard to see in the short term. News flash: it is not. The signs are ALWAYS there right at the beginning!
Tests of character which men can use:
1) Does she act nice/sweet/loving to win people over to her side, take something from them, get them into a relationship etc (ie. she has a motive for being nice)? Acting nice/sweet/loving for ANY motive is always indicative of FAKE NICE. Those who are truly nice don’t have a motive for being nice! They just act kindly for the sake of kindness, and they do that with just about anyone, without wanting anything in return!
2) How does she treat those who are unkind to her? Does she do evil to them? Repay them twice or thrice the evil? If yes, she is NOT a person of character! A person of character treats kindly even those who are unkind!
3) How does she act when she is jealous/angry/upset? Does she start naming the person she is jealous, angry or upset with to others and tear down the person’s reputation? If yes, she is NOT a person with character!
4) How does she act when you don’t give her the attention/love she wants? Does she start flirting with other men, become mean to you, as though you owe her? If yes, she is NOT a person with character!
5) How does she act towards people who are of lower status or of no use to her? If she shows a lack of respect or is unkind to these people, she is NOT a person with character!
So many scenarios that you can observe a woman’s character, even test them if you want. Yet what I do see is men turning a blind eye to the RED FLAGs of character flaws in women early on, with the lame excuse that characters are hard to know in a short time! It is not hard to know, it’s because you men don’t want to know!
You men go with the flow in relationships instead of actively observing and testing the characters of women you date/marry. Guess what? The broad and easy way leads to DESTRUCTION. So you should expect to date or marry an evil woman if you are going with the flow in this time and age!
Tests of character which men can use:
1) Does she act nice/sweet/loving to win people over to her side, take something from them, get them into a relationship etc (ie. she has a motive for being nice)? Acting nice/sweet/loving for ANY motive is always indicative of FAKE NICE. Those who are truly nice don’t have a motive for being nice! They just act kindly for the sake of kindness, and they do that with just about anyone, without wanting anything in return!
2) How does she treat those who are unkind to her? Does she do evil to them? Repay them twice or thrice the evil? If yes, she is NOT a person of character! A person of character treats kindly even those who are unkind!
3) How does she act when she is jealous/angry/upset? Does she start naming the person she is jealous, angry or upset with to others and tear down the person’s reputation? If yes, she is NOT a person with character!
4) How does she act when you don’t give her the attention/love she wants? Does she start flirting with other men, become mean to you, as though you owe her? If yes, she is NOT a person with character!
5) How does she act towards people who are of lower status or of no use to her? If she shows a lack of respect or is unkind to these people, she is NOT a person with character!
So many scenarios that you can observe a woman’s character, even test them if you want. Yet what I do see is men turning a blind eye to the RED FLAGs of character flaws in women early on, with the lame excuse that characters are hard to know in a short time! It is not hard to know, it’s because you men don’t want to know!
You men go with the flow in relationships instead of actively observing and testing the characters of women you date/marry. Guess what? The broad and easy way leads to DESTRUCTION. So you should expect to date or marry an evil woman if you are going with the flow in this time and age!
