Mr. Right Looking for Miss Right

[Identity09]

Mr. Right Looking and Waiting for Miss Right

I'm 20 years old, single, never really had a great relationship at all.
I haven't been on a real date at all.
People say that I'm handsome, so why am I single?
I am a great guy with great qualities and love God.
So, why am I still single and why aren't anybody interested in me at all?

I acknowledge God and His love for me, but when it comes to love of another fellow human being in terms of a relationship, I am very love deprived.

 

[happyharold4]

I'm 20 years old, single, never really had a great relationship at all.
I haven't been on a real date at all.
People say that I'm handsome, so why am I single?
I am a great guy with great qualities and love God.
So, why am I still single and why aren't anybody interested in me at all?

I acknowledge God and His love for me, but when it comes to love of another fellow human being in terms of a relationship, I am very love deprived.

"Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you"----I have a friend that was about 22 and worked in a Christian ministry with me----He was so handsome and innocent that all these beautiful girls were constantly making fools of themselves trying to flirt with him---But he had no interest and was set on serving the Lord---He left our ministry and went to So America as a missionary---While he was there he served under a leader who was also from the US---Well this leader has a daughter who has come there also to serve the Lord---So she and my friend are serving together in a foreign land and fall in love and get married---He comes home and visits me and is like a little kid wanting to show me the precious gem the lord has brought into his life---He is one of the most handsome guys I have ever come across---She turns out to be perhaps the most homely girl I have ever met---But as I spent time with her, I realized she wasn't rich in the things of this world, (looks etc.), but wow was she ever attractive spiritually----I could easily see how he had definitely gotten the precious pearl of great price---They also have had one the most successful marriages imaginable.

So if you busy yourself with the things of the Lord that relationship you yearn for will manifest in due time.

Happy

 

[Identity09]

I am serving the Lord, but how do I busy myself with His servings?

 

[chozi]

sorry for asking but wat do u mean exactly?

 

[Identity09]

I guess how do I serve the Lord and how would I know?

And I don't feel very blessed at all. I don't have a job, no money, no girlfriend, and college isn't going so well for me at all.

 

[strawberry]

I guess how do I serve the Lord and how would I know?

And I don't feel very blessed at all. I don't have a job, no money, no girlfriend, and college isn't going so well for me at all.

Hey you! You are blessed!! God doesn't want you to sit around fretting about things that aren't going to just fall out of the sky into your lap. Get out there, work hard, and do the best you can with what God's given you.

 

[The Templar]

But I've got to be honest with you strawberry, it's kinda hard to feel blessed when your life is ridden with so much plague.

Hang in there Identity. Remember, you still need to grind through life even if God is around. Sadly, that's just how reality goes.

 

[Identity09]

But I am trying my hardest. I always give 110% at everything I do and more. I have always been mature, even at a young age. I already know that I have to work at something and fully believe and have faith that you will accomplish it. I have known this since I was at a very young age of seven.

But nothing isn't going my way at all, nor has it ever.

 

[happyharold4]

But I am trying my hardest. I always give 110% at everything I do and more. I have always been mature, even at a young age. I already know that I have to work at something and fully believe and have faith that you will accomplish it. I have known this since I was at a very young age of seven.

But nothing isn't going my way at all, nor has it ever.

Let's talk briefly about your salvation experience.

Happy

 

[Identity09]

What do you mean salvation experience?

 

[Property Of God]

Remember, you're only 20, your whole life is waiting ahead of you, you will graduate, you will get a job, and you will get married. The statistics are with you! 9 out of 10 people get married!

Just wait!

 

[Identity09]

Remember, you're only 20, your whole life is waiting ahead of you, you will graduate, you will get a job, and you will get married. The statistics are with you! 9 out of 10 people get married!

Just wait!

I really hope so. Pray for me, please?

 

[Property Of God]

Ofcourse, I'd love to!!

 

[Identity09]

Ofcourse, I'd love to!!

thank you so very much. I need as much help as I can get.

 

[Property Of God]

thank you so very much. I need as much help as I can get.

I know, I read your latest post, I'm really sorry, life is full of seasons and phases that God wants to use in order to bring us closer to Him, so we can glorify Him. A lot of people here have gone through such horrible days but God sustained them. Just pray about it and never lose faith, God can do so much with the so little that you have and He wants to do great things for you!

 

[Dreamer]

What do you mean salvation experience?

Salvation is when you turn from self and give everything over to God. You ask God to forgive you through His Son, of all your sins that you have ever committed! Sin is anything you think, say, or do that is against God's laws. So we've all sinned!

Salvation is also believing upon the Lord with all your heart, and turning to Him for everything in your life. Everything. Consecrating yourself to Him. He loves you!

 

[Identity09]

Salvation is when you turn from self and give everything over to God. You ask God to forgive you through His Son, of all your sins that you have ever committed! Sin is anything you think, say, or do that is against God's laws. So we've all sinned!

Salvation is also believing upon the Lord with all your heart, and turning to Him for everything in your life. Everything. Consecrating yourself to Him. He loves you!

Thank you for the explaination. I wasn't quite sure what salvation meant (I admit, I use words sometimes that I do not understand what it means. Lol.). I turn from myself often and pray for forgiveness of the sins that I have committed. I fully believe upon the Lord with all of my heart and all that He does. After all, He created and life, so all things are possible, especially through Him.

 

[::PreciousinChrist::]

Identity,

Don't let all these things distract you, I know it is hard...
Keep your eyes fixed on the LORD Jesus Christ ( Heb 12), let Him help you grow in understanding on this issue specially.He knows you better than you know yourself.

Remember that God looks at your heart and not the outer appearance like men do( 1 Sam 16:7)

The LORD will make all things beautiful in its time...

God bless you
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[Identity09]

Identity,

Don't let all these things distract you, I know it is hard...
Keep your eyes fixed on the LORD Jesus Christ ( Heb 12), let Him help you grow in understanding on this issue specially.He knows you better than you know yourself.

Remember that God looks at your heart and not the outer appearance like men do( 1 Sam 16:7)

The LORD will make all things beautiful in its time...

God bless you
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Do God also judge upon action? I know I have a good and honest heart, but sometimes I find myself doing something I'm not supposed to after the sinful deed and I feel very bad afterwards.

 

[::PreciousinChrist::]

Do God also judge upon action? I know I have a good and honest heart, but sometimes I find myself doing something I'm not supposed to after the sinful deed and I feel very bad afterwards.

Dear Identity,
yes God does judge your actions. Gal 6:7-8
Therefore you must ask God for forgiveness and also forgive yourself by faith, not feelings.

God bless you
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Please Read Matt 7:24 -27