My marriage is in dire crisis! Please help me!

[G8RSG1]

Here we go,

My wife and I got married on February 8th, 2009. Two days later, she was sent to South Korea for her first duty station with the US Army.

For the first few months, we endured the hardships of being separated, and I even got to visit for a month. After that visit, I went back home, and started the process of dealing with the distance, all over again.

Back in September, I was finally authorized to live here with my wife, and so I moved out here, and we finally began our married life together. Shortly thereafter, we found out that she's pregnant, and we recently learned that it will be a boy! Benjamin Josiah!

Since then, things have been wonderful. Until a few days ago. Now before I explain what happened, let me explain my current medical condition.

I suffer from depression, and was on an anti depressant called Effexor. I was on a rather high dose, and because of that, I was numb to everything. I felt no desire to be affectionate towards my wife, and began to neglect her. I ran out of said medicine a little over a week ago, and went through incredibly bad withdrawl. During that time, I was more angry and impatient with everything, than I have been in my entire life. We went to see a doctor, and he prescribed Zoloft for me, which has done wonders thus far. My mood evened back out, and the effects of the withdrawl disappeared.

Anyway; On Monday night, I learned that she has been swooning over another man she works with, trying desperately to get the affection from him, that I did not give her. Having a history of anger problems, I let it get the best of me and began yelling at her. She told me she would leave the apartment for the night and go sleep in the barracks. As she left, the only words exchanged were " Goodbye." As the night went on, my thoughts got the best of me, and I began convincing myself that she had gone back, to be with this other guy. I quickly got dressed, and went to the barracks to find her, so I could bring her home, and try to work on this. During the cab ride, I become furious at the thought of her with another man, and when I arrived, went straight to his room, and demanded that tell me what was going on. Thankfully, he endured my anger, and informed me that there was nothing going between them, and that he was completely unaware that she was as enamored as she was with him. He and I continued to talk for about an hour, and he even tried to help me find her.

Since then, things have been blown so far out of proportion, I have been absolutely stunned. Her entire chain of command (the people in charge of her) have got she, and themselves convinced that I have been abusing her. They have told her she is no longer allowed to live at home with me, and is to live in the barracks until further notice. The believe that because I came to the barracks, seeking answers about what was going on, that I'm a danger to my wife.

The worst thing about all this, is that I have never laid a hand on my wife. I may have been disrespectful, and neglectful, but that never changed that fact that I love her more than anything, and would cross the sahara for her. She has become blind to everything we have.

So, they brought her back to the apartment the next day, to get some clothes, with an armed escort. As I watched her gather her things, the MP's (Military Police) watched me like hawks. I have never in my life, experienced something so surreal. I felt like I was watching a drama of some sort on TV, that there was no way this could really be happening to me, and my marriage.

Yet, alas, it was happening, and since then, she has done nothing but push me away. I have sat in this apartment, alone, for the duration of this incident. I have had all the time in the world to speak to God, yet I pushed, and fought him for control of the situation.

Last night, after speaking with my father, I finally gave up everything to God. I got onto my hands and knees, and humbled myself before him, and cried out for his help. I have always had a problem with praying out loud, and I have never understood why. Perhaps it was because I was embarrassed or ashamed. Anyway, almost immediately after doing this, I felt an incredible change, in my heart, my mind, and my spirit. I felt all of my faults and wrong doings come to light, and everything that I had done wrong in our marriage thus far, became so incredibly crystal clear to me. I unplugged my TV, and my Xbox, and began reading The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman, a book that she has been begging me to read for months. I also found the first chapter of the Love Dare online, which is about Patience. That first chapter jumped out off the pages and smacked me across the face.

As of now, she and I are not talking. She has told me that she needs time to think about what she wants to say to me. I understand that, and yet, at the same time, it's killing me not knowing when I'll talk to her again. At this point, she no longer knows if she wants to be married to me any longer.

I feel as if I'm living the movie Fireproof, only worse. She wants nothing to do with me right now. I have shown her that I have realized everything that I have done wrong, and that I am willing to change everything about me, to better myself. And for the time being, it seems to mean nothing to her.

I won't give up on her, but I feel so alone, and have almost no one in my life to encourage me.

Please help me.....

 

[aristotle]

Jer 32:17 Ah Lord Jehovah! behold, thou hast made the heavens and the earth by thy great power and by thine outstretched arm; there is nothing too hard for thee,

Jer 32:26 Then came the word of Jehovah unto Jeremiah, saying,
Jer 32:27 Behold, I am Jehovah, the God of all flesh: is there anything too hard for me?

Father, i bring my brother to You and i lift him up before you. i make his petition to You my petition as well. i join my faith to his in asking You to do what You do so well. impossible things. Lord, he knows that he can not make right what he has, by bad choices, helped to mess up so badly. there is no way for him to regain his wife's trust after the way he treated her. the relationship, for him, is broken and wasted, like a bruised reed. but You, Lord, do impossible things. You take bruised reeds and cause them to make beautiful music again. in Your Hands broken and ruined vessels become vessels of honor in Your House. i ask that You do that for my brother. take the ruin of his home and change into a fortress of love. do the impossible. it's what You do. thank You, Father, for Your Love and Grace. in the Name of Jesus, Amen.

 

[G8RSG1]

Amen.

Thank you so much for your prayers, you have encouraged me greatly!

 

[dchildress]

Your on the right path!

What I have read of your relationship with your wife is on a long road to recovery. You did the first step of humbling yourself in prayer before God. The next step is to seek her forgiveness. This can be done by letter, flowers and other things that will touch her heart. But, you need to give her space to breath and examine her own life. Don't try to approach her, let her to that when she can see that your heart has been changed. Also get the movie "Fireproof" watch it yourself then give it to her by someone else. But most of all keep yourself in daily comment to God in PRAYER! Recovery has to happen with you first by finding out exactly what is causing your depression and anger. I too had to go down that road of being angry and depressed! But God has been faithful to heal my mine as well as my soul and deliever me from the bondage of depression. You too can have this healing but it requirers your obedience, being patient, expressing love and keep His commandments. For he is faithful to give all you desire but it requirers your work, your step of faith. I wish I had time to tell you of my life and maybe you would see that your not the only one that is being attacked by Satan. So God Bless and I'll be praying for you and your marriage. Brother David.

 

[G8RSG1]

Thank you so much for your prayers David. If you could, just pray that God would soften her heart, and break her down as he did me.

 

[sophia]

Remember Jesus loves you so much and he will never reject anyone who comes to him, put your name on that sentence and accept Jesus, then repent all your sins and ask your wife for forgiveness read Isaiah 30:20.........,

 

[Boanerges]

My friend, I will be praying for you.
Perhaps you need to address the root of the tree as well as the fruit it is producing. You should seek counseling fro a Spirit filled local Pastor. If you desire to be anonymous go to one that does not know you.
They can certainly help you as they are generally very well trained in counseling and helping people to get free from their issues.
Once you have gotten past some of the hurt and anger your wife will begin to see a change in you and may be open to couples counseling.
Again, I will be praying for you.
Many blessings in Jesus Name,
your brother Larry.

 

[beam]

Go to a site called Godsavemymarriage by Joel and Kathy Davisson, God has given them absolutely awesome insight to bring total healing to marriages. There are people who have gotten as far as divorce found this site, followed the Godly principals and their marriages are better today than they ever could have imagined.

In Ephesians 5:25 God is asking the Husbands to lay their lives down for their wives just as Christ laid His life down for the church, for His Bride which is us. God said the man is the 'head' just as Christ is the head...that word head in the original writings means.....SOURCE OF LIFE.....if a husband is not being a SOURCE OF LIFE to his wife he is automatically being the opposite...which is source of death....just as God said if you are not FOR me you are automatically AGAINST me. So if a husbands actions or words are not being a source of life then they are being a source of death. Good thing God is in the RESURRECTION business.

God made men initiators and women responders. Christ went FIRST in laying his life down for his Bride and only THEN could she respond to His love. We did NOT love God FIRST, He loved us FIRST then we loved Him back. The man is asked by God to do as his Son did for His Bride. The women is NEVER asked ANYWHERE In the Word to lay our lives down for the husband, but we are asked to RESPOND to the husbands laying their lives down for us. So the man in actual fact is asked to AGAPE love his wife and the wife is asked to philleo love her husband....its all right there in the Word for all to see.

When the order of the husband initiating agape love to the wife and the wife responding to this love is right in the marriage, then there will be the MUTUAL submission the Word speaks of and requires from husbands and wives.

So your wife is merely RESPONDING to what you have given her. There is hope,there is always hope, especially with God on your side and in your marriage.

Obviously it takes work. Your wife is hurting, women are very emotional, God wired us that way. You would need to acknowledge how you have hurt her and LISTEN to her heart WITHOUT arguing, defending or denying. Just Listen and apologise, This is the first step in bringing much needed HEALING to your wife's heart. If you get defensive your wife will not feel SAFE to open up and share her heart with you.....that is why i suggest....just listen and apologise for now....in doing this you will make her feel very validated, she will know that you are truly hearing her heart and THIS will make her feel SAFE to open up her heart to you again.

Go check that site out, this is truly marriage God's way. Alot is required of the husband, but that requirement came from God first, not man. Adam was made FIRST for a reason.

God bless you in your endeavour to save and HEAL your Bride in Jesus name.

Best regards
beam

 

[beam]

Thought i would share this with you as well,

My husband and i sat before a DIYdivorce advisor exactly 1 week before this past christmas. In our country, as long as one agrees on division of assets and custody a divorce can be FINALISED in 3 weeks!!!!

I have always wanted a deeper more meaningful realtionship with my husband and have been hunting for a looooong time. Last year November i came across the Godsavemymarriage site, i showed my husband and he began to change......the ONLY thing that got in his way was his PRIDE.....and as God shone His light on the depths of my husband's pride.....boy was it scary.....for all of us....well my husband bolted to say the least....hence we found ourselves in front of a divorce advisor....yes us christians!!!!!

Well as my husband began to read and read more of what God revealed through Joel and Kathy Davisson he decided to CHOOSE the hard path....he chose to humble himself and lay his life down for his Bride....me......Yaaaahoooooo.

And today we are working towards an outrageously happy marriage....i am a witness this WORKS.....I praise you Jesus.

The more my husband listens to my heart and values what i say...he validates me more an more.....as he does this he is being my SOURCE OF LIFE and he is pouring HEALING into my heart......and yes my friend EVEN OLD WOUNDS GET HEALED.....and i cannot help but respond with respect, honor, praise and love for my husband....he is laying his life down for his bride just as my savior layed His life down for His Bride.

I cannot tell you what a DEEPER revelation i am getting of Christs love for us and this is in turn affecting my walk with God in a PROFOUND way. We could not have done this without God leading me to find the site Godsavemymarriage.

Blessings to your marriage brother in Jesus name. Father protect his wife's heart, strengthen it to turn back to her husband, may they experience an outrageously happy marriage and teach others in Jesus name.

 

[SpiritLedEd]

I have shown her that I have realized everything that I have done wrong, and that I am willing to change everything about me, to better myself. And for the time being, it seems to mean nothing to her.

G8RSG1: How long did you and your wife date before you were married? Did you two discuss your depression much before your wedding? It sounds as if you really exploded in anger, which frightened her, enraged her (reaction to fear), and embarrassed her.

You say you've shown her that you've changed. You might be looking for her to re-unite with you too soon. She's been deeply wounded. Its going to take time, lots of time for her to come back.

Continue with your counseling, do what your counselor suggests, and develop a support group network.

Spirit Led Ed (SLE)

 

[G8RSG1]

God has worked in incredible ways since my first post!

I spoke for an hour today with my wife, and I am absolutely amazed to say the least!

God has touched her heart, and opened her mind, in a way I didn't even think possible!

I thank you all for your prayer and encouraging words! It's going to be a long road, but our marriage is at the beginning of the road of healing, and it's getting off to a great start!

 

[Dreamer]

Speaking from the woman's perspective...well, my marriage nearly ended in September 09 and I had prayed everything, done everything. He was usually only verbally and emotionally abusive to me, at times he shoved, once picked me up and threw me, once restrained me from leaving the home and bruised my arm, once punched me for no reason in the bed.

But worse than the physical was the verbal and emotional. It bruises within, brother.

You love her and you have obviously humbled yourself and you are in the will of God. I believe God will honor your obedience and faith. I hope and pray that your wife will be healed of her hurt. Continue to pray for her, your love and prayers for her are priceless.

I can't help but see some things from her perspective, but it is quite obvious that you are sorrowful for some past behaviors and that you want to be together with your wife and love each other.

My husband was touched by God on Oct. 7, 2009 and much of his anger left him. He was at a military base in another state for guard drill. It did not all leave him, he still has not completely let go of all of it. We are all growing closer to Christ every day...if we want to, yes, if we desire Him.

God grant you grace to you and your dear wife! May a relationship be restored that is more wonderful than it ever was or ever imagined to be.

 

[G8RSG1]

Well, she has left again.

She went back to the barracks, because she said she still needed time to get her thoughts in order.

I understand, and even helped her pack her things back up, and took her back myself.

She has said that she feels bad, because she can see the changes in me, but she has done nothing to change the things she needs to, to be better for me as a wife.

If she was being honest with me, I think God is finally breaking her down (She has been fighting him for control of her life through this.)

Please keep up the prayers!!

 

[Dreamer]

"Dear God, heal this young lady and allow her to let go of the past and be free and joyful in You.

We pray for complete healing in this marriage, God, cover this couple with your power, grace, and mercy, we love You, Lord, and give You all the praise! The enemy is defeated in this relationship in Jesus name. Your love is above all others. Anoit them with your love.

Thank You for this man's love for his wife and his willingness to lay it all down to save his marriage. Reward him, Lord Jesus. Amen."

 

[G8RSG1]

Her mood seems to have drastically changed from last night. After church this morning, we began discussing some things that were on her mind, and she seems to have started to blame every one of our marital problems, on me.

I admitted much of my guilt to her, for the things she is so bitter about (Money mainly.) But it is so hard for me to take all of the guilt for the things I know, aren't solely my fault.

We have both made some very poor choices with our finances over the past year (Feb09-current) and are doing okay at best right now. Unfortunately, as I said, she claims that it is all my fault. I am doing my absolute best, to take everything she says in stride, and stay strong through her verbal bombardments, but she doesn't seem to understand just how much her words are tearing me apart.

I've tried to explain to her, why the man she was speaking to, is a threat to our marriage, but she refuses to see it, and refuses to quit speaking to him. I told her that until she can do that, my love tank will never be able to fill. Of course, she didn't want to hear it. She has said that he is the male version of her, and is the only one who has given her comfort through this.

It makes me physically ill, to know that there is another man comforting my wife, while I sit and wait for her to return to me.


Please, PLEASE, pray that God would keep her from temptation, and that he would continue to break her. I can see her wall starting to fall down, but she is trying desperately to keep it up. I know that God is getting to her, and so I continuously pray that God would break her, as he broke me. That he would show her, as he showed me, just how much she needs him in her life.

 

[healinhandsman]

Go to a site called Godsavemymarriage by Joel and Kathy Davisson, God has given them absolutely awesome insight to bring total healing to marriages. There are people who have gotten as far as divorce found this site, followed the Godly principals and their marriages are better today than they ever could have imagined.

In Ephesians 5:25 God is asking the Husbands to lay their lives down for their wives just as Christ laid His life down for the church, for His Bride which is us. God said the man is the 'head' just as Christ is the head...that word head in the original writings means.....SOURCE OF LIFE.....if a husband is not being a SOURCE OF LIFE to his wife he is automatically being the opposite...which is source of death....just as God said if you are not FOR me you are automatically AGAINST me. So if a husbands actions or words are not being a source of life then they are being a source of death. Good thing God is in the RESURRECTION business.

God made men initiators and women responders. Christ went FIRST in laying his life down for his Bride and only THEN could she respond to His love. We did NOT love God FIRST, He loved us FIRST then we loved Him back. The man is asked by God to do as his Son did for His Bride. The women is NEVER asked ANYWHERE In the Word to lay our lives down for the husband, but we are asked to RESPOND to the husbands laying their lives down for us. So the man in actual fact is asked to AGAPE love his wife and the wife is asked to philleo love her husband....its all right there in the Word for all to see.

When the order of the husband initiating agape love to the wife and the wife responding to this love is right in the marriage, then there will be the MUTUAL submission the Word speaks of and requires from husbands and wives.

So your wife is merely RESPONDING to what you have given her. There is hope,there is always hope, especially with God on your side and in your marriage.

Obviously it takes work. Your wife is hurting, women are very emotional, God wired us that way. You would need to acknowledge how you have hurt her and LISTEN to her heart WITHOUT arguing, defending or denying. Just Listen and apologise, This is the first step in bringing much needed HEALING to your wife's heart. If you get defensive your wife will not feel SAFE to open up and share her heart with you.....that is why i suggest....just listen and apologise for now....in doing this you will make her feel very validated, she will know that you are truly hearing her heart and THIS will make her feel SAFE to open up her heart to you again.

Go check that site out, this is truly marriage God's way. Alot is required of the husband, but that requirement came from God first, not man. Adam was made FIRST for a reason.

God bless you in your endeavour to save and HEAL your Bride in Jesus name.

Best regards
beam

wow

First off, thank you Jesus for our sister and her knowledge on this matter and her willingness to share your word with Holy Spirit Boldness!!!

Second, thank you beam for encouraging the brother that originally wrote this post.

Finally, thank you for sharing your in depth knowledge with us, I was so touched by your post that I shed tears that I haven't been able to shed in years.

Recently, frustrations in my marriage have been really eating away at my patience for the cute, innocent things my wife does and it annoys me to no end. I have been researching divorce lawyers tonight and couldn't sleep so I decided to come here and find help from other brothers and sisters in Christ. Well I found it alright and then some, I believe most of my frustrations are with myself, the business I recently started and because I am not showing her that Agape love, therefore she is not able to respond with anything other than what I dish out to her. I really like the part about being a SOURCE OF LIFE, it really is an answered prayer for me because I have been asking the Father to show me what to pray for to make my marriage healthier and He answered thru you:

In Ephesians 5:25 God is asking the Husbands to lay their lives down for their wives just as Christ laid His life down for the church, for His Bride which is us. God said the man is the 'head' just as Christ is the head...that word head in the original writings means.....SOURCE OF LIFE.....if a husband is not being a SOURCE OF LIFE to his wife he is automatically being the opposite...which is source of death....just as God said if you are not FOR me you are automatically AGAINST me. So if a husbands actions or words are not being a source of life then they are being a source of death. Good thing God is in the RESURRECTION business.

that really touched me and I will begin to implement being a "SOURCE OF LIFE" instead of the source of death I have been recently; I wanted to post on here and thank you personally, may God the Father bless you in all things you do!!!

Brother G8RSG1, I pray that the Father will continue to give you the knowledge and wisdom to be a better husband and that He will continue doing what He does best in your wifes life Amen

God bless you Brother and hang in there....I will be praying for ya

 

[beam]

Her mood seems to have drastically changed from last night. After church this morning, we began discussing some things that were on her mind, and she seems to have started to blame every one of our marital problems, on me.

Hi there Brother G8RSG1, this is known as 'venting'. A womens emotions are rather like spaghetti. so the way you have wounded your wife now is attached to another memory of a similar wound. If you have not brought healing to that wound yet then the poison WILL come out about that wound as well as the current one. Unfortunatley it does not look, sound or feel pretty. But you put the hurt their in the first place, so you should take a deep breathe and 'handle' what you put their in the first place coming out now.

This IS laying your life down for your Bride, right there in that moment. When Christ was being nailed to the cross it was extremely painful for him, but He pushed on through. There is a Resurrection and great reward after death. You are only getting a glimpse now of what it means to truly lay your life down for your Bride, JUST AS CHRIST laid his down for His bride....YOU.

This is a commandment from God to husbands.

I admitted much of my guilt to her, for the things she is so bitter about (Money mainly.) But it is so hard for me to take all of the guilt for the things I know, aren't solely my fault.

Even when things are not your fault, just as it was not Jesus' fault either that He got crucified for something we did wrong. So must you continue to bring healing to your wifes heart despite who is at fault. You are the Head, You are her source of Life. This is where your walk with God deepens as you run and get filled up from your source of Life...God, Just as Jesus did and brought that Life to His Bride...YOU...so now you bring that life from God to your Bride now.

We have both made some very poor choices with our finances over the past year (Feb09-current) and are doing okay at best right now. Unfortunately, as I said, she claims that it is all my fault. I am doing my absolute best, to take everything she says in stride, and stay strong through her verbal bombardments, but she doesn't seem to understand just how much her words are tearing me apart.

What alot of men dont get is the extent of damage and pain, that mere overlooking of his wife's heart to be heard and loved brings. God designed a wife to desire her husband. In other words God created her with NEEDS that only YOU the husband can meet and fullfill. A need to be validated, affirmed and loved. Every time you miss her heart, whether intentionally or not you feed her death. God said a women is the glory of man. A wife is a husbands reflection. She is your mirror. she is your responder. You are the Initiator, you are to go FIRST in laying your life down and she will follow. If you dont she will still follow. You sow into her, you reap what you sow. Either life will come out of your wife or death will come out of your wife...for you.

It was extremely painful every time you hurt your wife and she tried to explain what you just did and yet you still did not get it. so she had live with that pain. Now her heart knows that you are opening up a bit there and actually willing to listen....to the pain you put their in the first place....so dont think of how her words are tearing you up right now....think of all the pain she has been carrying around all this time and its finally coming out. I know this is hard....laying down your life serious business, it will take a man of courage to obey God and do the actions. Let your wife help you meet this Godly standard HE is calling you as a huband to do. She is your HELPMEET, there is NO such word as HELPMATE. The translators just tried to make things easier but actually made us take a bit of a wrong turn there. There is ONLY the word HELPMEET in the original texts. Your wife will HELP you MEET a more Christlike standard, if you will give her permission to speak up as you miss the mark of her heart. Then do as God commanded in Ephesians 5:25.

Dare yourself to even go as far as thanking her for 'venting', because there will come a time when ALL the pain will come out and there will be no more pain and ugly inside of her to come out.....only healing and that too will come out of your wifes heart....and that my brother will blow you away.

I've tried to explain to her, why the man she was speaking to, is a threat to our marriage, but she refuses to see it, and refuses to quit speaking to him. I told her that until she can do that, my love tank will never be able to fill. Of course, she didn't want to hear it. She has said that he is the male version of her, and is the only one who has given her comfort through this.

Your wife is only your responder, not the 'filler of your love tank". I think what you are in actual fact asking your wife to do, is lay her life down for you so that it will be easier for you to show her love and understanding. God has asked the husbands to AGAPE love their wives. He never did ask the wife to Agape love her husband. but although we are such tender gracious ever forgiving longsuffering creatures, we tend to Agape love our husbands anyway. But truly dear brother, God has asked you to go FIRST with your wife with NO CONDITIONS ATTACHED. That is laying your life down JUST AS CHRIST LAID HIS DOWN FOR HIS BRIDE. Never mind the other guy. FOCUS on winning her heart over. USE ALL your energy to live with your wife with knowledge, and if saving your marriage means apologising for things that were not your fault, you still have nothing to lose but a huge possibility of your Bride falling back in love with you.

It makes me physically ill, to know that there is another man comforting my wife, while I sit and wait for her to return to me.

Dont sit and wait, get pro-active. Join the Godsavemymarriage.com forum, there are experienced marriage councillors that are AWESOME and willing to walk with you every step of the way. Even if you dont join, there is so much to read and free stuff to download, you will learn how to live with your wife with knowledge. you can learn all the hows, wheres and whens. They also have marriage instensive weekends, i think every month or two.

If you can find ANY books by Ken Nair or Paul Hegstrom, you will gain knowledge that will make you go weak at the knees. You will have information the other man DOES NOT, to woe and win the heart of your Bride.

Please, PLEASE, pray that God would keep her from temptation, and that he would continue to break her. I can see her wall starting to fall down, but she is trying desperately to keep it up. I know that God is getting to her, and so I continuously pray that God would break her, as he broke me. That he would show her, as he showed me, just how much she needs him in her life.

What i will pray right now is that God show you the Power He has already given you to step inbetween temptation and whats yours. and i pray that God will break YOU brother, enough to be so willing to get so serious about obeying God and laying your life down for your Bride. I pray that God will saturate you with such Wisdom from above to live with your wife with Knowledge, to love her, cherish her, nourish her, to wash her so clean that she is without spot or wrinkle...to be a source of Life and happiness to her, treat her like the Queen and Gods precious daughter she is.

You held her hand the day you got married and looked into her eyes and made those vows. NOT God. So i pray that God will show YOU how to get to her ...in Jesus mighty name. You can be the one to show her by your actions of humility what a GREAT LOVING FORGIVING GOD WE SERVE. amen.

There is much to learn brother....stand up in Jesus name and go forth into battle to rescue your Bride. Be her night in shining armor, become the man of her dreams again. And watch with your own eyes how she will become the women of yours.

God bless you VERY VERY MUCH in Jesus name
beam

 

[beam]

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