okay let me tell you what i've found to be true and i have scripture to back it up.
1st stop looking. 2nd love god with all your heart, seek god and his love fall in love with god because until you do hes not gonna bring another person into your life.
In jesus time the women had an alabaster box and in it they kept expensive oil in it, it was kinda like a dowery. When they found a husband they would give it to them. Break your alabaster box at gods feet and give him your heart.In the book of Ruth, Ruth abandoned everything(your people will be my people and where you go i wil go) and she went with Naomi and took care of Naomi. Serve god in singleness and be content with loving god.In jer. 2
god told jeremiah go announce my messafe to the people in jerusalem. I want everyone to hear it tell them, i remember how faithful you were when you were young you loved me as if you were my bride.
Trust me when you met them god will tell you, and you will know. Trust me i know he did it for me.
Dont rush things, leave your relationship in Gods hands and tell him let your will be done. Someone once told me that if its ment to be but its not ment to be right now then its not ment to be.And keep god the center of your relationship, i've heard it said that a husband and wife are not ment to complete eachother but to complement eachother. There are three people in the relationship you him and god dont exclude god and you'll be fine.
hope this helps and im sorry its so long.
-Andrea