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Please Pray For Me

Dreamer

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I am having a hard time today. It is Monday. Every weekend is an ordeal, and by Monday I am exhausted. I do not understand what gives my husband the right to badger and cajole my daughter (his step-daughter).
It's not right. How can he take us to church and then act so sarcastic and mean all weekend? On Monday mornings, when he kisses me goodbye, I think to myself, "Bye! Go on! Get out of here so I can have some peace!"

Today I find myself wishing I had never met him. Just when things start to get a little better, they get worse again. I'm tired, so tired.

He had a vasectomy Friday morning, but you would think he had just given birth. Not that I got any help or encouragement from him before or during labor. If I did not have this 9 month old baby with him, I would leave today. That is how fed up I am!
 
My dear sister,

If only I had the words to encourage you with. I have no answers but I do know that our Heavenly Father does. I will pray - Father help Dreamer this day and the days ahead. Bring wisdom and grant her comfort. Let your loving arms wrap around her during this season. Guide her feet and strength her heart as she raises her children. And we will give all the glory, honour and praise. In Jesus name. Amen.

God bless you Dreamer. Be encourage that He is by your side every day.

Love,
Snowrose
 
Sister Dreamer, It makes me sad that you go through these difficult times. I cannot say that I know what you are going through, I cannot tell you what to do, I do not know what to say to make this situation better for you. I am with Snowrose, I can only send you love, and keep you in my prayers.

There is one thing I do see here I hope you see as a blessing and that is your husband did at least have the vasectomy. I know of men who refuse to have this procedure done and so the wife has to undergo surgery or continue birth control, or gets pregnant again.

Gal6:9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the
proper time we will reap a harvest If we do not give up.

Keep your hope in the Lord and He will renew your strength Isa:40:31

God Bless You

love Calluna
 
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I know this is going to sound strange, but God spoke to me about my husband.
He told me some things that will help me to be more patient.

A few hours ago I was dead sure God hadn't sent me here to marry him. But now I know God did put us together.

God spoke very clearly to me.
 
Dreamer, I'm praying for you and your family. I find in situations like this is to realize that even though your husband is acting the way that he is, it's only satan attempting to break up your home. Remember the enemy comes to "steal, kill and destroy". He wants to steal your family and your hope. Pray honestly for your husband, bless him, pray good things for him even if you don't feel that he deserves it. That's one way we fight the devil. Don't let the devil win. You will see a change in your husband and you will have a happier life.

May God Bless you and your family.
 
Dreamer said:
I know this is going to sound strange, but God spoke to me about my husband.
He told me some things that will help me to be more patient.
A few hours ago I was dead sure God hadn't sent me here to marry him. But now I know God did put us together.
God spoke very clearly to me.

It doesn't sound strange at all sister. Father heard your cry, and answered. Praise His Holy Name. :love:
 
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