I would like to say. The LORD allows things for the best!
We do not understand these things very well.
Nor do we accept them well?
I have experianced many sad things in my life!
Some I now understand why? Other may not know why , until I am with HIm!
Maybe not then.One things for sure? HE is LOVE and LOVES us very much!
Isa 57:1 The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart: and merciful men are taken away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil to come.
One thing for sure?
Every babies goes right to heaven [New Jerusalem]
Rom 9:11 (For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth
Of course,we still feel the loss!
I pray our LORD blesses you both and guides you forever and you one day see these childern and rejoice in our city!