Prayer In Need Urgently

[Sammeh_3]

Hello Brothers/Sisters .. Im A Bit Worried About My Mum.. My Father Passed On In December 05 since then she has been dating other people of the internet im not sure what to do .. I've told her how i feel .. I've told her whats going to happen if shes not careful but shes not listening to me .. what can i do ? Would Be A Great Help If I could have some help thanks sammeh_3 xx

 

[andrewnicholas]

Hello Sameh - sometimes internet dating can lead to meeting decent Christian people.Since my wife left I joined an agency and though I have not dated anyone I have made four good female friends.As long as your Mom uses the e mails as a filter and asks a lot of questions she should be able to sort out the bad from the good.Of course she has to be careful and you are right to be concerned.Give your worries and cares to God - she must be very lonely after your Dad's sad passing but there are many good and lonely people who turn to the net to meet new friends.May God and His angels protect her now and always.Amen.

Nicholas.

 

[Fellowservant]

Amen andrewnicholas, will be praying for you both.

God bless

 

[stephen]

Hello Sameh - sometimes internet dating can lead to meeting decent Christian people.Since my wife left I joined an agency and though I have not dated anyone I have made four good female friends.As long as your Mom uses the e mails as a filter and asks a lot of questions she should be able to sort out the bad from the good.Of course she has to be careful and you are right to be concerned.Give your worries and cares to God - she must be very lonely after your Dad's sad passing but there are many good and lonely people who turn to the net to meet new friends.May God and His angels protect her now and always.Amen.

Nicholas.

Amen brother. Accept your judgement in this.

Praying for the situation sammeh_3

God Bless You

 

[rlowe]

If she is not using what you think are decent Christian Soulmate Search sites, maybe you could search online, find some of the better Christian sites, & recommend these to her.

If you need help finding Christian Soulmate Search sites, let me know through PM.

 

[Sammeh_3]

U see theres a problem my mom is not a chrsitan :|

 

[4Given]

I'll pray

for your mom.You should let your light shine before her and lead her to Christ.Hope your life is doing great since you got saved.God Bless

 

[Chad]

I will pray for her and you keep praying for your mom that she may receive salvation by GOD's grace through Christ. Pray for her that GOD will grant her wisdom, discernment and conviction by the Spirit so that she may see the real truth and the purpose of her life GOD has for her.

 

[andrewnicholas]

We are all God's children sister - I will pray for your Mom - remember the good Shepherd will leave His flock to bring her back unto His arms.Jesus we hope in you, trust you and give ourselves to your loving care , please watch over our sister and bring her into your loving arms so that she may live in Your light now and always.Amen.

Nicholas.

 

[Sammeh_3]

Amen .. Ty Very Much AndrewNicholas.. Gbu all for replying to this post sorry to have caused any bother x

 

[rlowe]

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You are not a bother.
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:girl_hug: (HUG)

 

[andrewnicholas]

Dear sister,

I have to tell you this.Please see my note in the shoutbox today.Our fellow member Carrie Irl took her own life on Friday last.She has not been emotionally strong for the past 2 years but she met a man on an internet site and fell in love with him.He told her his wife was dead and he wanted to make a life with her, buying her an engagement ring, setting dates and even looking at houses.She was blissfully happy but soon it became clear his wife was alive, he was not legally separated and he had been deceiving her all along.I pleaded with her to dump him but he always managed to have an excuse when she confronted him with a load of issues and he had some control over her.Sadly the events of last week when her world came tumbling down after more lies she took her life.She was only 40 and a good, kind and faithful lady.All of us who mourn her passing wonder if we could have done more as she had family and friends like me who would have dropped everything and gone to help her had we known.May her gentle soul rest in peace and if this saves just one other person from a similar fate then her death will not have been entirely in vain.I pray that God will grant her peace and give consolation to her sorrowing family.Amen.

 

[andrewnicholas]

Hello sister ,

I dont know if you saw my message in yesterday's shout box where I asked for prayers for the repose of my friend Olive who used the name Carrie Irl on this site.Sadly she took her own life on Friday last having been deceived by a wicked man she met on Anotherfriend.com an internet dating site. This man lied from the start and had some kind of control over her.Everytime a lie was uncovered he had an answer and I believe in the end he crushed all hope she had in human nature.I tried to help her but now find myself consoling her family.She did have emotional issues that left her very vulnerable but the tragic nature of her death should not cloud the fact that she was a loving, caring and honest person.She was a Christian but her illness combined with this mans duplicity overcame her.People dont commit suicide they die from it just as people die from cancer. I lost a very dear friend, her family a good daughter and sister who went out of her way to help others.Sadly this shows the danger of vulnerable people turning to the web for friendship and serves as a timely warning to make sure you check people out before allowing them into your life.This man was a predator who exploited her goodness. May she rest in peace.Amen.

Nicholas.

 

[Sammeh_3]

Tis 8 Munths 2day That My Dad Died does it hurt the first xmas without him or s it as bad as it seems? ty all sorry to have caused an more botehr x

 

[andrewnicholas]

You are not causing us any bother daer sister - we are all united in fellowship.Unfortunately we cannot escape from the "firsts" in the year following a person's death - Christmas, Valentines Day, Birthday, Father's Day and anniversaries.This is all part of the grieving process we all endure when we lose a loved one.Only those of us who have lost a parent can truly understand.My Dad's birthday is December 23rd and he loved the simple things of Christmas - joy, happiness and goodwill and though its been 12 years since he passed on we still remember him with affection.Gradually it will get easier, while never forgotten the memories will find their own place in your heart and mind and though sometimes a song or the smell of food or some other happening will make you feel sad and perhaps a tear or two will fall but in the main you will look at his memory with affection and thank God he has left you with many happy memories.Dont feel at all as if you are bothering people - these are early days and you are entitiled to feel as you do and we are here to listen, pray and understand what you are going through.Let it all out and remember your Dad is safe in the arms of Jesus, experiencing a peace and happiness that is promised to all who believe in the Father.May God comfort and console you and give you the courage and fortitude to cope with your loss today and always.Father hear our prayer.Amen.

 

[Angelwave]

this sounds heartless but trust me its not!make each first after your dad died a time of celebration that he is now in a lovely place where he cannot be harmed!and when you celebrate he will be celebrating along with you!just think...if it was you not him and you could see you family, would you want them to be happy and getting on with their lives...or sad and lonely??its a question u need to ask yourself!he would never want you to be upset im sure!dont feel bad tho its natural to be upset just dont let it take over your life! i no ur thinkin wt would she know...but my dad died too!about ten years ago and even now people xpect me to be upset when his name is mentioned or people are afraid to ask about him incase i burst into tears, but those people dont know me!what happens happens and happens for a reason!am i always happy to talk openly about my dad without a tear rolling down my face, i love to share his experiences his greatness with people and i love that i can get it out in the open and dont have to keep it in. YOU ARE NOT A BOTHER, you are a person in need of help!

as for your mum...maybe once you get a few more replys to tthis you should show her what we think and tell her once AGAIN how worried you are and keep saying until she understands tell her you dont have a problem with her meeting new parteners just wish she would meet thm in person, tell her your just afraid she'll get hurt!

i wil b prayin!
god bless
luv angelwave
xxx