Prayer Request For My Marriage

[Wjohnson]

Please pray for me and my husband. The enemy is busy amd I know only God can heal us and our union with Him. I am aware that we do live in a broken, sinful world but where does personal responsibility comes in to play? I'm not happy with the things my husband does and I'm sure its things I do that doesnt sit right with him. When he lets me know what's bothering him, I listen and try my best not to upset him again. I dont get that from him. I've tried discussing it with him he get upset I keep my feelings to myself and the pipe is about to bust and ALL I KNOW OS GOING TO GOD IN PRAYER. So, could yall pray with me? Thanks and God Bless..

 

[stephen]

Please pray for me and my husband. The enemy is busy amd I know only God can heal us and our union with Him. I am aware that we do live in a broken, sinful world but where does personal responsibility comes in to play? I'm not happy with the things my husband does and I'm sure its things I do that doesnt sit right with him. When he lets me know what's bothering him, I listen and try my best not to upset him again. I dont get that from him. I've tried discussing it with him he get upset I keep my feelings to myself and the pipe is about to bust and ALL I KNOW OS GOING TO GOD IN PRAYER. So, could yall pray with me? Thanks and God Bless..

Thank you for asking for prayer dear lady. God loves you and is interested in you and your happiness.
I pray for you both today, and I pray that the Holy Spirit will bring the healing which you desire in your marriage. Lord Jesus be with these people I pray in Jesus Name.

 

[Br. Bear]

Greetings,

Yes, husbands can be difficult creatures...
I know.... I am one of them!

May I suggest that you don't continue declaring

the pipe is about to bust

Instead praise the LORD for the wonderful opportunity to be the Christian you want to be, whenever things upset you so.
Truthfully praise Him and know He will take care of you AND your husband.
Don't make excuses like the fact or feeling that your husband isn't perfect so why should you be
or, if everything was better you could be better and it wouldn't be so hard.
Trust the LORD. We are perfectly perfected through trails and like I said, see them as beautiful and perfect opportunities for you to be who you really want to be, to be the Christian you really want to be and consider how you might please the LORD best in your reactions to whatever is upsetting you so much. He wants to help us but we need to accept His help.
Do you ever feel you need to say sorry to the LORD after getting so upset over things and with or against your husband? Well, if you do, you're not the only one BUT don't be satisfied with that for the LORD wants so much better for you and is more than interested in helping you deal with things in a way that you walk with rejoicing.

Bless you and thank you for reminding me that I too need to be a better husband! ....><>

 

[Br. Bear]

Thank you for asking for prayer dear lady. God loves you and is interested in you and your happiness.
I pray for you both today, and I pray that the Holy Spirit will bring the healing which you desire in your marriage. Lord Jesus be with these people I pray in Jesus Name.

Yes, amen.

 

[Thiscrosshurts]

I join the body in lifting up your situation into the heavenly reality that is yours,your husbands and all believers in Christ..
I also pray that the spirit bring light,life peace and joy into your house.
And give you strength,discernment and wisdom for this type of trial that most if not all couples can get caught up in.

Godspeed your restoration.

 

[Thiscrosshurts]

I want to encourage you in the same line that Bro. Bear started.

Ephesians 5:11 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;

When we make a judgement about anyone(including ourselves) that is different than God's judgement of them then we become the judge.
God's judgement of you and your husband has already been settled on the cross and his judgement is that you have already been raised up with Christ.
Ephesians 2:6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus,

If I see myself in a different way than God sees me then what can God do to help
me seeing that I have become the judge about what is real and what is not.
If I say to myself,"I can't take much more" then I have judged my situation and limit my possible outcomes.

If I say to myself "I will believe God" then I will look for his point of view.
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

Now thats tough to believe but it opens more possible outcomes and let's God be the judge.
So in a way trying to focus on the problem leads to defining the problem and it gives
the problem a more solid place in my reality that does not exist in God's reality.
So rather than participate in a dark reality I choose to expose the dark reality by shining the light of truth.
Jesus is the truth,so is his work that he finished and we were included in that work.

The truth is that no weapon formed against you shall prosper,unless of course you judge differently.

 

[Brad Huber]

Lots of good reply, I will add my amen and gladly add my prayers!!!

 

[Wjohnson]

Thank u all for ur support. God is so good to me and I'm so thankful for each and every one of u. I'm learning to trust God more and go to Him in prayer. I have lately been going to God with repentance concerning my husband. I thank God for him each day. It's just hard biting my tongue, but I do it anyway. God is working it out. Thanks again for ur prayers and advice.
God Bless!

 

[Chopper]

There is a wonderful supernatural process that in most cases bring about great changes in Husband, Wife relationships. This is the plan: There is strange way that God uses to solve problems like you have described. Remember, His ways are not our ways....Give your husband a peace of paper and pen, and ask him to list as many changes that he would like to see you make. Let him know that you want to be a better wife to him, and you need to change some area's in your relationship. Ask him to help you make those changes.

It will amaze you when you see the "Right Hand of the Lord" enter your life to improve YOU, and how God will prompt your husband to follow you in making changes in his life in answer to your wants and prayers. I have been a Christian Psychologist for 30+ years, and this plan works!

 

[amadeus2]

I am praying for your marriage!