Hello Smiles, and welcome to this wonderful Forum. Actually, Br. Bear has given you sound advise....Personally, I don't like laying a fleece before the Lord, and that's what it sounds to me that you are doing.
One of the huge pitfalls of young folk to day is the whole dating scene. Dating usually leads to pre-maritial sex which destroys logic and produces fleshly desire and clouds God's will. Courting is God's way of finding out what the will of the Lord is, IMO. Courting eliminates sex. Courting brings about serious conversations about each others past likes and dislikes etc. etc. Courting is bathed in prayer when you and this other person are together. Make sure that you two invite the great Counselor, the Holy Spirit to guide you and you will definitely find out God's will.
When you two are together, remember
Romans 12:1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
When you two are together, keep lust for each other out. That way, you can present yourselves chaste, a sacrifice that is living, and holy. You should study together the Word of God in all the places that talk about Husband & Wife relationships in a marriage. Study about no divorce. If you two "reason together" you will know what the will of God is because the Holy Spirit of Jesus will guide you.