1 Corinthians 7:12-14 ESV / 231 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful
To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
What joins a wife and a husband? Is it documents? Words that decree a vow?
It's love, see, love honors the vow, love owns it and keeps it in truth; if I have a brother who says he doesn't believe but then I witness him doing things and living by principles with are of God (he loves his neighbors and does uphold them well--he honors his friends and helps them in need--he stands for the oppressed and he helps the afflicted--his wife and his kids
are happy with him and they do rejoice), then for what exactly should I be discouraged?
If somebody has a different speech than me or even a different understanding of words, but instinctively they know God and follow Him--which can be seen by their behavior--then this person
is a believer. Jesus ministered
principle; He taught
virtue; he did not teach
anything else--words, speech, and beliefs are a portion of the way of righteousness--it is when someone
lives by the
understanding and
wisdom of
uprightness that we know the truth is alive in them.
Again,
validating by word whether someone is a believer or not is actually just a credit to our own conscious and not theirs--see, The WORD teaches us to be good to one another, to be principled and not reprobate--to love without limit, spreading peace and joy wherever you go.