I have a" friend" i call him a friend because frankly i have no idea what we are. We use to be more then friends but that didn't work out too well because his a nonbeliever and i'm Catholic but he puts as because he can't come see me (his in Germany). It's not that his a bad guy his actually a really nice guy and i actually think it would be really amazing if he decided to learn of the Christian faith and became Christian but i don't have the nerve to tell him that. Were "friends" now but i still feel like his "the one" and i feel like if i keep trying i can reach him because i know all that his going through and i just feel like if he can only believe he'll have a lot less stress in his life and he'll stop wondering and asking why. I feel like if it weren't for him i wouldn't have found out so much about myself and i feel like we met for a reason. I feel like we both know how we feel about each other but were kind of going in circles. I don't know if i should give up and stop trying to reach him or if i should keep going and if i do keep going and he doesn't want my help. I want to know if what i'm doing would be considered wrong or wright?
Hey, I think that its what your heart tells you. If you feel like you should continue to help him then do it. If you're not sure ask God for help, he's never wrong
Did this guy teach you a lot about yourself ot did God teach you a lot about yourself? If you're going to "preach" about the Lord to your bud there just make sure you're preaching grace and not law. Anyway, there are a lot of couples that get married that aren't both believers. And there is scripture indicating that this presents the opportunity for a spouse to help lead the other spouse to Christ later on. I wouldn't make such a big deal about it though, UNLESS he's got a problem with your walk with the Lord and teaching your kids about the Lord.
Sorry i meant that through him the lord has made a lot known to me and it's not preaching my attention isn't to preach to him the gospel or whatever my attention is to help him and the way i see it is that despite the fact that his 23 he is a bit clueless when it comes to some things. I have no attention of marrying a none believer. I'm not trying to say i'm in love with this guy and i want to marry him or something. What i'm trying to say is that i'm in love with this guy but it has been made clear for me that there isn't much of a chance of us ending up being together but i want to help him to realize that there is more in his life then "good and bad luck". His had a good impact on me and through him the lord had pulled me out of a lot of pain and etc. I’m just trying to do the same for him.
