Amen Fellowservant! We need only introduce the lost to Christ, He does the rest! (if we let Him) So often we are so eager to see those we introduce to Him, to know Him for themselves, we get in the way of what the Spirit is doing and try to hurry things along with our own list of do`s that we think might please Him. This is not Christs way. He says let our Father do the drawing.
Joh 6:44 No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him:
or that is to say, "No man is able to come to me if the Father who sent me does not give him the desire to come:"
It is nothing we say or do that creates the desire to say "I DO" to Christ...but oh how His spirit can move upon the hearts of man!
Hope [or, confident expectation] does not disappoint us, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit, the One having been given to us. Rom 5:5 Glory to God!
Praying for you and your boyfriend sister ami, God bless you!