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Soul Mate????

whozangel

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Soul Mates.........Do they really exist ? I am beginning to wonder. If ur out there, come find me......lol.
 
soul mate real not exist.

i dont think they realy exist in this world .people compromise to push life with others .
 
soul mate is unexisted thing.

the thing which is not existe why we trust for that on God,and believe for that? I think we should do what we can do and do not think about the unexisted thing hahah. Deepwater
 
The Bible tells us that we must have faith. God brought into existence things that never existed before. What is difficult for HIM? We shouldnt limit God with our limited minds. HE gave every man who relied on HIM a soulmate. I dont think he has changed today.
 
Hi whozangel,

I once posted a thread called "To all women who found their soulmates how'd you know?" I did want to know how they knew and also to see how many women actually thought they were with their soulmates.

I think I only got one response, which was concerning (actually disappointing) but I guess better than none. Maybe this was due to the fact that not every women on Talkjesus saw that post and so could not reply, and maybe I should ask the men as well.

But maybe for all the single christian ladies looking for their "soulmate", we're expecting a soulmate to be Prince Charming? But really we're not all princesses anyway.

We probably have such high expectations of all men who show a remote interest and are so critical of them (judging them from a far) that we quickly cross them off "the list" (if there is infact a list or radar...whatever you may call it) before you even really get to know them.

Although it is important to have some sought of criteria, to look out for certain "red flags", but not a criteria that is impossible for anyone to meet.

I think there is a soulmate for everyone of us but some of us may have a wrong definition of what a soulmate should be (like prince charming) and go on looking unsuccessfully because of an impossible criteria.

I wonder if this is true for the christian single men out there as well?

That's just what I think (or maybe we just all need to get out a little more, for those of us who sit around waiting for someone to come along).

Godbless!
 
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I totally agree. Sometimes we just let our imagination run free into a wrong idea of what a soulmate really is. I think a soulmate should be someone who fills "the other side" or like complements what you are.
of course we must always keep our feet in the ground, as we are, our soulmate willl have good and bad things, he/she will not be perfect.
Even we have like our own preferences like stetic, or details we look for in
a person, I think my soulmate will be a man who seeks God, who loves God,a guy who is concious of his need of God and that we are not perfect, and only God makes us who we are. Someone who has his feet on the gound about that.
Everything else is important of course, but the first thing we must look for is this.

God knows what we want, what we likw, what we look for in a soulmate, He will bring that special person. he WILL.

Blessings!!!


Haynaru
 
Faith / Adventourous Walk!

I have read your posts concerning souls mates.

And I disagree with some of the perception on soul mates esp from the ladies!

First! of course soul mates exists! Where is your faith!

Sometimes our biggest problem is we spend too much time looking that we push god aside.

Stop looking

because you will be disapointed! Instead look to god!

Seek ye first the kingdom of god and everything else shall be added unto you!

For me its this faith walk that is an adventure itself, the most exciting part

is finding out my destiny and purpose through this awersome god jesus christ!

Remem:love: ber this GOD IS IN CONTROL! HE WILL BRING YOUR SOUL MATE IN

TO YOURLIFE SO THAT HIS NAME BE GLORIFIED!


 
I didn't really believe in soulmates. And I wasn't even looking for a partner because I was perfectly content with how it was. But God knows what my heart needs and also knows the right time for everything... And he brought to me the guy who really is the other half of my soul. Soon after we became friends I got to feel something special about him. And later I got to know he felt the same way about me. We developped understanding, care and acceptance for each other and I am confident that we have built a firm bond and continue to affirming it. "I was the lonely one who didn't want no one" (from a song by a band I like XD) but then I got to see that God had sent me just the perfect man for me, one who understands and accepts me the way I am, who will always love and support me and stay by my side - and I am so grateful for that and always want to be the same for him too.:star:
 
Jesus saves....

That's a beautiful story Estrella.

I have my times, when I'm like " Lord I give up, ". Yes we believe God has someone, it's the waiting that's so hard.
Then there is the guessing game " Is he the one ".
To much for me to fuss over, God's the lover of my soul when he's ready to share me, he'll let me know.

God bless you Estrella.
 
The term "soulmate" is sort of a stronger word than reality beholds. The word soulmate seems to indicate that there won't be work involved in maintaining the relationship, lol.
 
Two points...

one - God has intended for everyone to be joined to a husband or wife after leaving their parents

two - i agree that people do have unrealistic ideas about their future partners and the needs within the person should be given to God so that they don't depend on the person to be a superman or woman.

I am single and male and 37 and have waited a long time to meet the right person. I hear lots from females who talk a good talk about wanting a Christian man but when the rubber hits the road and when it comes to a commitment they back out.....

food for thought. God bless you
 
Dreamer, that was a funny statement sister. Soulmate, it sounds too sweet to be true. Actually, I do believe in "soulmates", but in perspective of what GOD says - two become one.

I'm a victim of my own imaginations, I must admit. Sometimes I wonder of my desires [Psalm 37:3-5] are a bit too much, a little unrealistic.

For your entertainment folks, let me tell you what I desire (this is brief lol)

- a woman who is a warrior for GOD, who loves Jesus
- a woman who is a health freak like me, who loves to exercise daily and eat healthy
- a woman who is "drop dead gorgeous". Why not? Attraction is important
- a woman who loves to travel freely. No worries. No concerns. Just roam the Earth and see the rest of GOD's amazing creation.
- a woman who is organized and clean
- a woman who does not procrastinate
- a woman who is, a woman

Trust me, there's more where this came from lol. I'm faithful that GOD will provide.
 
Two points...

one - God has intended for everyone to be joined to a husband or wife after leaving their parents

Not everyone. Some are to remain single, as both Jesus and then also Paul say. That's up to every individual person to find which way is the one for them.

I myself for some years believed really strongly that I should and would stay single. And I was never trying to find a partner. However, as I said in my previous post, we two belive now that God intends us to be together because that is better for us. Although before getting to know this guy, I would have never believed that about me or wished to get a partner... But this is just wonderful, it's like already since we started as friends there has been a bond of souls between us, that we together with God continue to develop...
 
To back up my statement Estrella, please refer to Matthew 19 v 4-12. God intended for all men and women to leave parents and to marry but it is not a sin if people do no marry and Paul does say in 1 Corinthians 7v8 that it is good to be single if you can keep self control so I do see your point too. However, Paul does also say in 1 Corinthians 7v2 that it is good for men and women to marry.

The main thing is that you remained pure before God and that God provided for your need so bless God for that!!! On this point we can agree
God bless, biggie
 
Yup, I see :) I just wanted to point out that also being single as a way of life is mentioned by Jesus (later in Matt 19) and Paul (in 1 Cor., 7). Though sadly, I sometimes see in protestant denominations that singlehood is being put down as something less valuable and don't even accepted as a possibility. That is so insensitive and unconsiderate. Because first, it may not be the person's fault that he/she didn't find to right one to share his/her life with, and second, if the person accepts staying single as their place in life where they can be content and serve God there is nothing wrong with it. I believe both ways are equally valuable, just simply different and meant for different persons.
On the other hand it was in the past in the Catholic church that the most saint way of life was considered living in an order/monastery and it was marriage what was seen as "not so perfect", which of course is not right either.
 
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