still single and have agoraphobia and anxiety

[christianjean]

Don't know what's in store for me as I have anxiety and agoraphobia... How can I have my partner? Sigh, i kept on praying but no one came...

 

[christianjean]

I kinda desperate as I am looking for a christian guy to understand me.

 

[Fragrant Grace]

Don't know what's in store for me as I have anxiety and agoraphobia... How can I have my partner? Sigh, i kept on praying but no one came...
I kinda desperate as I am looking for a christian guy to understand me.

@christianjean


Be patient sister
Commit all your anxieties and desperation to the Lord
Keeping praying and talking to the Lord, growing closer to Him, let His perfect desires for your life take over
Wait on the Lord who already has your future mapped out for you

Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6-7

 

[AbbysAunt]

Hi christianjean,

You asked how can you have a partner right now and the answer is you already do have a partner who has been there with and for you since the day you were conceived. Jesus has been there holding your hand and helping you through the anxiety and agoraphobia. The one thing our enemy satan does is attack our minds and tries to get us thinking negatively about ourselves. Don't let him steal the joy of Lord that is in you. At this point you have a Savior, a husband, a best friend, a brother, a teacher, a daddy in heaven who loves you so much and is walking beside you and leading you through this life. In His timing when He feels you are ready and when He is done readying that special one that will love you to be able to take care of you the way God wants him to then you will brought together with that special man, but for now enjoy your time with God and take this time to grow closer to Him and let Him show you how much you are loved and how much you are worth to Him. I will be praying for you my sister and friend.

God bless you
AA

 

[christianjean]

Thanks for you two for the post reply. This helps me and please pursue praying for me. I am already 39 and no more young...Lol. Oh well.

 

[AbbysAunt]

will continue to pray for you.

I'm 43 and still single and waiting on God and enjoying every moment I have with Him. God loves you and 39 is still young...lol!

 

[christianjean]

Been single 39 years and I don't know if I will be having my hubby... With my situation having the anxiety disorder and being agoraphobic? hmmmn. Sometimes I feel so hopeless.

 

[Fragrant Grace]

Been single 39 years and I don't know if I will be having my hubby... With my situation having the anxiety disorder and being agoraphobic? hmmmn. Sometimes I feel so hopeless.

@christianjean

In agreement with @AbbysAunts posts

Sister,before you were saved you were hopeless
But you have Jesus and all your hope is in Him
And He will never fail you

That filthy liar satan will try to whisper in your ear that you are hopeless and that you will never be married
Don't succumb to his mutterings.

Rejoice in the blessings you have, rejoice in your salvation
The Lord knows what your needs and He will supply all your needs perfectly (whether that means you marry or not)

Bless you

Other foundation can no man lay than that is laid which is Jesus Christ
1 Corinthians 3:11

 

[kyval82]

hello sister
i am really sorry you are sufferring with this.. but if you will trust God and what i am about to tell you i know things will improve!!!!! i have TERRIBLE anxiety and panic disorder... i had to quit nursing school..my job.... i even stopped driving!!! do you know that it is all in my head and simply attacks from the enemy!! i didnt know that for a long time.... i just got sooo sick of it consuming everything.. know what i do??? i still have panic attacks everyday..but ... i have accepted that it is ONLY anxiety, i havent died yet and i wont die from this one... i know this because i cannot die untill GOD decides it is my time to die and I trust Him!!!

it is soooooo scary i know i really do!!!! but dont let the enemy steal the little joys out there that are waiting for you!!!! i have you in my prayers sister!!!!!

 

[Rev T.S.Perkins]

All things are possible through Christ ..somedays the answer is no other days its wait on The Lord ..neither one is an easy answer to swallow but we must be patient no matter what the answer .Child God has not left you ever ..nor will He ! Trust that Gods timing is perfect even if we aren't ...it's not about a mate its about trusting God and keeping you're eyes fixed on Him and His word.....Lord I ask that you minister to her needs and that you're perfect will be worked in her that you may be lifted up during this time of trails and confusion . In Jesus name ..Rev

 

[christianjean]

hello sister
i am really sorry you are sufferring with this.. but if you will trust God and what i am about to tell you i know things will improve!!!!! i have TERRIBLE anxiety and panic disorder... i had to quit nursing school..my job.... i even stopped driving!!! do you know that it is all in my head and simply attacks from the enemy!! i didnt know that for a long time.... i just got sooo sick of it consuming everything.. know what i do??? i still have panic attacks everyday..but ... i have accepted that it is ONLY anxiety, i havent died yet and i wont die from this one... i know this because i cannot die untill GOD decides it is my time to die and I trust Him!!!

it is soooooo scary i know i really do!!!! but dont let the enemy steal the little joys out there that are waiting for you!!!! i have you in my prayers sister!!!!!

Thanks so much for sharing me this... I tried the acupuncture and hope that this will make me a normal person again.

 

[christianjean]

All things are possible through Christ ..somedays the answer is no other days its wait on The Lord ..neither one is an easy answer to swallow but we must be patient no matter what the answer .Child God has not left you ever ..nor will He ! Trust that Gods timing is perfect even if we aren't ...it's not about a mate its about trusting God and keeping you're eyes fixed on Him and His word.....Lord I ask that you minister to her needs and that you're perfect will be worked in her that you may be lifted up during this time of trails and confusion . In Jesus name ..Rev

Thank you and I hope that all these lies of satan will go away...In the Mighty name of Jesus AMEN!

 

[love_yeshua]

Being single is not a bad thing and you should not be in a hurry to get somebody.

Since you have a problem right now (agoraphobia) you should not be seeking a relationship. You should only get into a relationship when you are in a sturdy position and able to pay attention to the other person. If you get with somebody right now, you are going to burden them with your problems. You need to be praying right now and seeking a way to resolve your problems.