Struggling With Abuse

[MorningDoveSings]

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope in an abusive relationship. I do everything I can to protect my child from my soon-to-be exes outbursts, but I'm terrified that he'll snap and injure her like he does me. I feel SO trapped. I can't even leave the house other than to step out back and hang laundry or play with my daughter. Even IMPLYING I want to go out sets him off. These aren't small rages, either. Busted mirrors, drywall, dishes, appliances. He smashed the front of the microwave last night in a rage, because it belonged to me. Dressers torn apart, clothes thrown out, and that's just what he does to things around the house. I've been bruised, shoved, screamed at, and literally trapped in this house with my child. I've been jumped for trying to call the police. I've called when nothing is happening and naturally, nothing is done. I get a little peace when he works nights, but it's short lived. He doesn't work full-time, so it's only a night or two of peace at a time. I just need safety, for my child if nothing else. Please pray for us, so that we can escape this situation we're trapped in. I don't know when I'll be able to check back here, but I'll try. Just pray for us, please. Pray hard.

 

[Godbehonored]

You are in a situation that I once lived in for years, and I was the child. I can tell you from experience your partner needs deliverance from evil spirits. That was and has always been the cause of people having uncontrollable rage.

After I believed in Jesus I was given a revelation on why all the oppression, abuse and violence took place between my parents. My father, who was the one with uncontrollable rage, told me that he saw a cloud of darkness hovering over him. The next day he went into uncontrollable rage arguing with me against my faith. It took years of prayer for God to bring my father into repentance. He never went into fits of rage since then.

 

[Godbehonored]

I have lifted you up into God’s hands, but I encourage you to pray for your partner as well. God delivered my family from decades long of spiritual darkness, it may be possible that your partner may be changed too if you pray ceaselessly for his deliverance.

 

[Hekuran]

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope in an abusive relationship. I do everything I can to protect my child from my soon-to-be exes outbursts, but I'm terrified that he'll snap and injure her like he does me. I feel SO trapped. I can't even leave the house other than to step out back and hang laundry or play with my daughter. Even IMPLYING I want to go out sets him off. These aren't small rages, either. Busted mirrors, drywall, dishes, appliances. He smashed the front of the microwave last night in a rage, because it belonged to me. Dressers torn apart, clothes thrown out, and that's just what he does to things around the house. I've been bruised, shoved, screamed at, and literally trapped in this house with my child. I've been jumped for trying to call the police. I've called when nothing is happening and naturally, nothing is done. I get a little peace when he works nights, but it's short lived. He doesn't work full-time, so it's only a night or two of peace at a time. I just need safety, for my child if nothing else. Please pray for us, so that we can escape this situation we're trapped in. I don't know when I'll be able to check back here, but I'll try. Just pray for us, please. Pray hard.

Gather evidence if you can (photographs of smashed items etc) and leave, for your sake and for the safety of your child.

 

[Brother Paul]

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope in an abusive relationship. I do everything I can to protect my child from my soon-to-be exes outbursts, but I'm terrified that he'll snap and injure her like he does me. I feel SO trapped. I can't even leave the house other than to step out back and hang laundry or play with my daughter. Even IMPLYING I want to go out sets him off. These aren't small rages, either. Busted mirrors, drywall, dishes, appliances. He smashed the front of the microwave last night in a rage, because it belonged to me. Dressers torn apart, clothes thrown out, and that's just what he does to things around the house. I've been bruised, shoved, screamed at, and literally trapped in this house with my child. I've been jumped for trying to call the police. I've called when nothing is happening and naturally, nothing is done. I get a little peace when he works nights, but it's short lived. He doesn't work full-time, so it's only a night or two of peace at a time. I just need safety, for my child if nothing else. Please pray for us, so that we can escape this situation we're trapped in. I don't know when I'll be able to check back here, but I'll try. Just pray for us, please. Pray hard.

Run. Run like the wind. Press charges. Get divorced immediately.

 

[Andyindauk]

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope in an abusive relationship. I do everything I can to protect my child from my soon-to-be exes outbursts, but I'm terrified that he'll snap and injure her like he does me. I feel SO trapped. I can't even leave the house other than to step out back and hang laundry or play with my daughter. Even IMPLYING I want to go out sets him off. These aren't small rages, either. Busted mirrors, drywall, dishes, appliances. He smashed the front of the microwave last night in a rage, because it belonged to me. Dressers torn apart, clothes thrown out, and that's just what he does to things around the house. I've been bruised, shoved, screamed at, and literally trapped in this house with my child. I've been jumped for trying to call the police. I've called when nothing is happening and naturally, nothing is done. I get a little peace when he works nights, but it's short lived. He doesn't work full-time, so it's only a night or two of peace at a time. I just need safety, for my child if nothing else. Please pray for us, so that we can escape this situation we're trapped in. I don't know when I'll be able to check back here, but I'll try. Just pray for us, please. Pray hard.

Awww .... Morning, my stomach knotted and my eyes welled up as I read your post. Poor you, you deserve better and your little one deffo certainly does. You need to exit that situation and quick for the sake of your sanity, wellbeing and the personal safety of your little one.

I'm from the UK so I'm not familiar with the help that's available in USA. Here the local authorities are obliged to run what we call 'safe houses' where abused wives / partners can escape to for a few weeks or months whilst can sort out somewhere to live permanently.

I'd be surprised if thetr was no equivalent in the US. Have a look around on Google (in Incognito mode) for what helps available. Plan your exit over the coming weeks, meantime squirrel away what cash you can to fund your first few weeks of freedom.

Meantime guys, let's all pray for our lovely sweet sister, Morning, asking for God's divine protection and safekeeping and wisdom from the Holy Spirit to plan her exit. Xxx