Hi jbow & welcome. We will definitely lift you up in prayer. The feeling you have of your request not being "as important" so to speak, is from satan. He doesn't want us to share our needs & burdens with one another because that strengthens us. God's Word says we are to carry one another's burdens. When we gather in unity, the enemy is defeated.
I lift up you & your family before the very Throne of our Father right now. I lay you before His Feet & pray His soothing Hand of comfort will rest upon you. I ask for your heart to be prepared to hear the gentle voice of the Holy Spirit. I pray healing & forgiveness & a new foundation for your family...one with God.
Get into His Word & pray. Then pray with your family. There is such power in that.