Too Fast?

[loverules]

Hi, im kinda stuck in a weird situation.

Well to start off me and my little brother are homeschooled, and one of the home education inspectors runs a wednesday school for homeschooled kids from 09:30 - 12:30.
Anyway, we started going to this wednesday school in september and i met a nice guy there. The second week he asked for my number (ended up having his number because my phone had died and he ened up writing it down wrong anyway lol).
The third week i had his real number off of him...the following night he texted me at like...9:30pm telling me he LIKES me, but then he told me to forget he ever said it.
I dont mean to sound nasty, but i dont like him that way at all, but he keeps asking every once in a while if i want to go from being friends to a bit more than friends.
But now i feel weird talking to him at school, and i keep noticing him looking at me in school for quite a period of time...and im stuck on what to do...ive told him i just wanna be friends, but i see in the way he looks at me it isnt sinking in.

Im so stuck on what to do, i just feel uncomfortable when im working because i know he keeps looking at me.
Can anyone give me ANY advice on what to do..PLEASE!?

Loads of love Kirsty xxx

 

[stephon]

parents

tell your parents about it - they are in the best position to offer advice.

 

[loverules]

Thanks, i followed some brothers (on here) advice and ignored him...and found out that he is just a so called christian.
Now that i ignored him i got to see his true colours...and their not pretty in my oppinion, plus he doesnt talk to me much anymore...so i think im good for a while
But thankyou for taking the time to reply

loads of love and God bless

x kirsty x

 

[dannibear]

Thanks, i followed some brothers (on here) advice and ignored him...and found out that he is just a so called christian.
Now that i ignored him i got to see his true colours...and their not pretty in my oppinion, plus he doesnt talk to me much anymore...so i think im good for a while
But thankyou for taking the time to reply

loads of love and God bless

x kirsty x

I made that mistake a couple times. I am glad
to hear you didn't. Trust me, it will save you
so many memories that you don't want to have.
I dated a guy that I hardly knew, mostly to
make a previous ex boyfriend jealous. After 9
whole months, I realized that he was immature
and lied to me about many things. Had I gotten to
know him, I wouldn't have dated him. We are friends
now, but we both accept that we are not for each other.
The boyfriend I am with now, I had been friends with
for YEARS. I knew what he was like, and because of
that, I can happily say I have been with him for a little
over two years. I am about to graduate high school,
he is in college. It still feels like the first day we dated.
We are both believers in Christ. I learned that
getting to know the guy can take a long time. I just
wish I had listened to everyone else and not learned that
the hard way.

You have your head on right when it comes
to these choices. I am glad to see that.
Continue asking God for guidance, He
ways are better than ours.

 

[loverules]

I made that mistake a couple times. I am glad
to hear you didn't. Trust me, it will save you
so many memories that you don't want to have.
I dated a guy that I hardly knew, mostly to
make a previous ex boyfriend jealous. After 9
whole months, I realized that he was immature
and lied to me about many things. Had I gotten to
know him, I wouldn't have dated him. We are friends
now, but we both accept that we are not for each other.
The boyfriend I am with now, I had been friends with
for YEARS. I knew what he was like, and because of
that, I can happily say I have been with him for a little
over two years. I am about to graduate high school,
he is in college. It still feels like the first day we dated.
We are both believers in Christ. I learned that
getting to know the guy can take a long time. I just
wish I had listened to everyone else and not learned that
the hard way.

You have your head on right when it comes
to these choices. I am glad to see that.
Continue asking God for guidance, He
ways are better than ours.

Im sorry to hear of your past expierance,
but I am glad that you are with someone you are happy with now

My big brother always told me to know the guy(or girl) for a year or more before getting serious...and although my big brother is sometimes not one to take advice from, I totally agree with him on that.

Thankyou for taking the time to reply
loads of love and God bless

x kirsty x