Hi Sarah, read your post with interest. If you're looking for romance, please don't. True romance will find you with more than a little help from God. If you're actively perusing romance your ten times more likely to make a bad and wrong choice. Like the TV evangelists tell you: 'let go and let God.' It will also help if you try to broaden your horizons and widen your circle of Christian friends both male and female. Visit other churches mid-week activities, try and find activities that interest you, run by Christians and if there aren't any, why not start one. Cycling, swimming, walking, cooking ... whatever lights your candle. Maybe go on Christian or church based vacations. BTW there's nothing wrong with wanting to connect with other Christians, in fact you're commanded to - John 13:34-35 . If you'd like I'd be happy to chat to you, just send me a PM and I'll start the ball rolling.
God bless you, Andy