Great answer Dannibear! This definitely the most important.
very important I agree, if he loves the lord,
then he will be able to love his wife as christ loved the church.
he shdnt just be a believer but one who is passionate about God in and out of season. bse the word believer i getting so abstract today.
many believers, come to church daily, are in ministry and do all the right
thing, yet don't seem to have issue with sex before marriage, porn, booze, some kinds of music - etc.
if you are in touch with God, u can easily see some pointers
but if you are not that alert, you might find an excuse for them, later in the marriage the red flags start flying at full Mast!
bk to the qn: he shd be organised, make me laugh, flexible, creative optimistic and down to earth