sry if i would have read your thing completely, that would have helped.. I believe we are saved from Gods wrath... God cant let anything impure in heaven. Now dont get me wrong, Hell wasnt created for us, but it is where we will go if we dont accept Him. As far as your friend, i am not sure what all you could say to help her understand. Sometimes it helps to give an illistration when explaning some things of God... i know a lot of times people use God as being a father, and us as being the kids... so you could say something to the effect that... Our dad is running the household, but all the little kids are running amuck making a mess of the place. Now, in order for dad to get his kids to stop tearing up the place hes gonna have to scold them, but if the kid comes up to his or her dad and apologises and repents, i believe the father will save the child from the punishment.... again, this isnt completely useable i guess, cause if you kill someone and repent to God, truely, I do believe He will forgive you, but that doesnt mean the earthly punishment on you will be lifted. You dont even have to use my example, but it might help your friend if she was explained this with a situation she understands. Sorry if i am completely far off topic here or if nothing i said makes sense... i tend to have that effect lol. Hope all goes well.