Will he still like me or not

[puregrace]

Help i dont know what to do, i am 27 female and single, i would love to get married, i cant see my future though.

I have depression and due to this i recently had to leave univeristy and return home.
I was baptised 21st january 2007 at university and my friends spent the afternoon with me playing board games, as one of my friends were leaving my housemate and i were showing him out, my housemate disappeared and he asked me something i didnt hear him but i was too shy and scared to ask him to repeat him self, so i just escaped it and said no even though i didnt hear the question. Then he looked really hurt and walked away. That was a year just over a year ago, and since then i have become really ill with depression and he has started working for the church for a year, we had not communicated since then he had his life and i had mine, i never approached him about it. Anyway my depression became such that i ended up attempting suicide and spending a weekend in a mental health assesment unit. Then shortly after returned home to my parents.
Anyway thats just background info and as he works for the church i dont know how much information he knows about me apart from the fact of me disappearing.
The events on the day of my baptism have stuck with me since and have been at the back of my mind but recently the devil or i dont know seemed that it was fitting to hit me with strong thoguhts of i should have done this youve missed a great oppertunity and all.
This man is such a nice genuine man of God and the thought that he may have asked me out and i said no really has effected me.

So yesterday after another desturbed night about it i emailed him, and was honest with him about what happened and such.
This may come to nothing i know but now i have done this God has granted me peace about.
The ball in now in the mans court.
PLEASE pray for me.
If he is not the man for me i pray that something will happen soon i am becoming desparate being single like this.
Please help.

PG

 

[rizen1]

I will pray..but remember it's all God's will, his timing not ours.

 

[puregrace]

Thank you:friends:
Sorry about my posts in aplication to court, i think im just a bit opinionated on that issue. Dont get the wrong idea of me please.

 

[rizen1]

Thank you:friends:
Sorry about my posts in aplication to court, i think im just a bit opinionated on that issue. Dont get the wrong idea of me please.

Don't worry I don't think any different of you, you raised some great points, its all about us exchanging notes, you might say something I never thought about it..you know.

Be blessed.

 

[redfox]

Bless you puregrace. God loves you more than you could imagine (Romans 8:38-39). I will be lifting you and your concerns up to God this evening as I pray.

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you."

Psalm 23:6

"Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life and I will dwell in hte house of the Lord forever."

Proverbs 19:21

"Many are a plan in a man's heart but it is the purpose of the Lord that prevails."

Isaiah 61:3

"I will provide for those who grieve in Zion; to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor."

Please be encouraged because no matter what happens you have a heavenly father who loves you and who sent his only son to die for you. you have been claimed by him and adopted into his family. you are holy and blameless (eph1) and he delights in you (zeph3:17).

Jesus I lift up PG to you and pray that you can come close to her right now because she needs you. I thank you that you have a plan for her beyond anything she could imagine (eph3:21) and that you will not forsake her. I pray that you can be in complete control over her future marriage and that you can guide her to the most amazing man who she will be completely in love with and whom she will love for the rest of her life. I thank you that you are the only one who truly knows what we need, and so I pray that you can provide for PG all that she needs. I pray you increase her faith so that she can trust in you in everything. I pray you take any fear from her and that whatever the outcome of the email she sent, that you can be glorified in her and your will can be done. Because you do good things for those you love (rom8:28 ish) and so your plan is best. I pray you reassure her that you havent abandoned her and that she doenst need to be worried about finding the man of her dreams, because yoou are in complete control. Please comfort her when she is feeling low, be her refuge when she is in need of shelter, be her stronghold and her rock when all else is shaky. Thank you that you will never leave her to fight on her own, but that in her desire to follow you, you will lavish good things on her (eph1). AMEN

truly, sister, you are perfectly loved by God.

God Bless

Love Jack

 

[rizen1]

I stand in agreement with you Jack.
very well said.

 

[mounty]

Sister, i will pray for guidence and clarity for you with this man, just remember if it is Gods will than it shall be done,

Try to find rest and peace in the arms of our Lord and all else will follow as God intends it too.

God Bless and Much Love xoxoxoxoxox :girl_hug::girl_hug::girl_hug:

 

[abigya]

Dear Sister, i will be praying for you too

but first thing comes first , you need to seek help from spiritually strong person to pray with you and to help you come out of your depression.

don't try to relate your situation with this person "you need Jesus to rescue you" and the other things will follow.


Only Jesus can save you and can Blesses you ........pray first that you will have closer walk with God.

Colossians 1:19-20

19 For it pleased the Father that in Him all the fullness should dwell,
20 and by Him to reconcile all things to Himself, by Him, whether things on earth or things in heaven, having made peace through the blood of His cross.


in prayers

abigya