yes I agree.
I know Jesus is real. What bugs me however is knowing how God views us. And I wonder how God changes us and what He gives us.
well spiritual gift tongues is one, one could receive, for example.
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Ahhhh... sorry I misunderstood what you originally meant.
As someone else said earlier, I think gifts of the spirit and fruits of the spirit.
The gifts can be a private thing, other people may not even know your gift.
The fruits are a public thing, these are what determines your maturity as a Christian (not the gifts). The fruits may not all the sudden happen at once, I think for most of us, it's a process of sanctification and growing in the Lord.
The gifts are mostly in 1 Cor 12, The fruits are mostly at Gal 5:22-23
The fruits of the flesh are listed at Gal 5:19-21
I think this is what the Bible is talking about when it says we are a city on a hill, ( Matt 5:14) a light that shouldn't be hidden (and usually can not be hidden, at least for very long)
When you are around someone long enough, you can almost always tell which fruit is prevalent in their life. The spirit or the flesh.
Also by our love for one another John 13:35
I don't think agape love can come from the flesh, we may love our spouse and children, but to love someone else, just because they are a fellow believer, I think this has to come from God.
Someone said we aren't to try to determine if others are saved, I disagree. For one thing, we are supposed to be equally yoked when we marry, how could we be equally yoked (2 Cor 6:14 ), if we don't know if they are a Christian? Timothy and Titus give a great number of standards that elders, deacons, and leaders in the church need to live up to. It says if they don't we shouldn't let them be leaders. Some say we aren't supposed to judge others, but this isn't really what the Bible says. we aren't supposed to judge non-believers, but we are supposed to hold other Christians accountable and lift them up. The says we are forgiven as we forgive others (Matt 7:2 ) and judged as we judge others, ( John 7:24 ) but it doesn't say not to judge them at all. ( Matt 7:20 ) ( 1 Cor 11:13 )