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@Jayshazel
Is she your wife girlfriend, significant other?
Trust without commitment, is difficult at best. I've been married now 35 years. Up and downs, but trust didn't magically happen when we got married. In fact it, as with our marriage was one of ups and downs. A roller coaster if you will. Still, the trust came as each of use came to know our own walk better in Christ Jesus. Faults and all, knowing if God could Love us even before we knew Him, and that love we have for each other, should also be reflective of that love. And that came as we have grown closer to God, we in turn have learned to love each other as He loves us. Loving each other in the moment that God has blessed us to be together and treasuring each moment.
This doesn't happen overnight, and doesn't happen without the trials and tribulations of life in this World. Made all the more difficult when one doesn't have God's Love in this life to show us the way. This only comes through Christ Jesus. Until we see, and have it so, we'll never be able to share it as unconditionally as He did for us. The enemy will also attempt to gum up the works. Make trouble for us if you will. By doubts, about ourselves and each other.
Give that other, time. Allow your actions to convince her, and not your words. For they are only words until put into action. May take a while, but if you love that person, then no Sacrifice is too great. In Christ Jesus.
With the Love of Christ Jesus.
Nick
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