@rnest13
Greetings,
The LORD is good.
We wrestle not with/against flesh and blood.
Repeat...
We wrestle not with/against flesh and blood.
You asked for Biblical and not worldly advice.
Forgive me please if I stray.
You mentioned that you would like family (only?). You being you and your husband.
Your husband is the head of yourself and together you are the parents. It is your house and home.
Please include your husband by reading this to him or allowing him to read it himself.
It is his decision that must be honored. He is answerable to Christ. Support him in that as a godly wife. You will be blessed.
I know not how your household works. However, remember that if you (the two of you, as believers) , do not live according to the instruction of the Bible, you have open doors and little right to expect any blessing upon your family.
While saying that, He is faithful Who has called you and if you confess your sins, He is faithful and just to forgive you, to present you to Himself, not you present yourselves, but Him presenting you unto Himself, peculiar and perfect. Trust Him, in faith and honesty.
Confession. Do you have iniquity you need to confess? No point worrying about son if so.
Stop labeling your son as 'gay'. Deceived but not gay.
Remember also to ask for wisdom. Our Father will not withhold from you, man. Remember also the wisdom from above is first pure, gentle and easily entreated. Wait upon the Lord.
This is family time. A homosexual relationship is not family. I think you both know that.
If you will welcome the other man to your house, do so in love and to share God's grace in His Son.
But not now.
You have chosen family and you are 'entitled' to do so. Unless you have unction from the Lord.
Preach to your son by the way you love him. If the Lord give you words, speak them. However, remember that your son(s) know your faith.
They have seen and will see if the love you live is the charity love or the worldly.
Ask our Father, and trust Him, to open doors of conversation, meaning the lad starts it and you partake, concerning Biblical matters.
The LORD is faithful.
Now, before you do anything, give thanks to God. Put Him first in your heart and mind and strength by giving thanks. That eliminates all emnity and all your canal mindset that wars against the Spirit. Giving thanks is vital. Repeat, giving thanks is vital. Do not proceed without.
Jesus is the Lord.
Let Him do His work in you all. You be faithful to Him.
We have not been given a spirit of timidity and fear but of love, power and sound mind. Give thanks.
May you have and know the peace of God in Christ Jesus, that passes all understanding. Let Him fill you to abundance.
Grace and Peace
Bless you ....><>
