This is within regard to my ex.. some say wife.. not girlfriend.
I'm not sure I would say those words spoken to me by someone on this forum have come true yet, more like are coming true; but there has been some "interesting activity" in the past 9 months and it seems to have started by talking to my wife's therapist in june of 2025: Who straight up asked me if i was trafficked as a child. I replied to the effect of "i'm not sure."
So anyhow there's been a pattern here that has now happened a third time, where speaking to said therapist seems to trigger interesting things within just a few days:
I texted my wife's therapist 3 days ago and got her email, but didn't say anything besides i think your concerns are legitimate, she had probably forgot what those concerns were.
2 days later, a woman I had spent some time and effort interceding for with regard her own spiritual attachment with an ex, which she did get set free of a year ago, she reached out to thank me again out of the blue, and so we spoke briefly and i told her a little more about what was going on with me and she basically got freaked out, told me she had just been delivered of a spiritual bondage with another ex.. which lasted 6 years! -she insisted it was a demon that won't go until you pray and fast for a while...
I don't share her opinion that its as cut and dry as she insists, but the coincidence is interesting.
So one possibility that I'm now wondering about is if its time to go talk to a man that i had wrongly assumed was my ex's step father. He isn't, and my ex may have hurt his son as well, in a similar manner, back in 1994. I suspect he and i have both been afraid to talk to each other for the last 13 years. all i know is he knew my mom's phone number, and was terrified of me.
but now i am left wondering, if back in 2013 when i went to his house.. if he did not know my ex, was with his son, in his house that night.
Because who in their 50's, would let a 31 year old woman be with your 24 year old son, in your house, if you had caught the 30 yr old woman 17 years prior, having sex with a 6 year old. there's no way you'd consent to your son being in a relationship with such a person.
-in other words, God may have indeed sent me there to uncover that situation, and i'd never been there before.
I'm not sure I would say those words spoken to me by someone on this forum have come true yet, more like are coming true; but there has been some "interesting activity" in the past 9 months and it seems to have started by talking to my wife's therapist in june of 2025: Who straight up asked me if i was trafficked as a child. I replied to the effect of "i'm not sure."
So anyhow there's been a pattern here that has now happened a third time, where speaking to said therapist seems to trigger interesting things within just a few days:
I texted my wife's therapist 3 days ago and got her email, but didn't say anything besides i think your concerns are legitimate, she had probably forgot what those concerns were.
2 days later, a woman I had spent some time and effort interceding for with regard her own spiritual attachment with an ex, which she did get set free of a year ago, she reached out to thank me again out of the blue, and so we spoke briefly and i told her a little more about what was going on with me and she basically got freaked out, told me she had just been delivered of a spiritual bondage with another ex.. which lasted 6 years! -she insisted it was a demon that won't go until you pray and fast for a while...
I don't share her opinion that its as cut and dry as she insists, but the coincidence is interesting.
So one possibility that I'm now wondering about is if its time to go talk to a man that i had wrongly assumed was my ex's step father. He isn't, and my ex may have hurt his son as well, in a similar manner, back in 1994. I suspect he and i have both been afraid to talk to each other for the last 13 years. all i know is he knew my mom's phone number, and was terrified of me.
but now i am left wondering, if back in 2013 when i went to his house.. if he did not know my ex, was with his son, in his house that night.
Because who in their 50's, would let a 31 year old woman be with your 24 year old son, in your house, if you had caught the 30 yr old woman 17 years prior, having sex with a 6 year old. there's no way you'd consent to your son being in a relationship with such a person.
-in other words, God may have indeed sent me there to uncover that situation, and i'd never been there before.