'We' do not ask for a spiritual gift -- they are given to us by the Holy Spirit upon a person's salvation. Take a look at 1 Corinthians 12 : 7 "But the manifestation of the Spirit is Given to each one for the profit of all." and then vs 27 - 28 "Now you are the body of Christ, and members individually. And God has appointed these in the church: first apostles, second prophets, third teachers after that miracles, then gifts of healing, helps , administrations, varieties of tongues.
"Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Are all workers of miracles? Do all have gifts of healings? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?
But earnestly desire the best gifts. And, yet, I show you a more excellent way."
Then we have chapter 13 -- the greatest is 'love'. And the rest of the chapter. Very thought provoking.
"Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Are all workers of miracles? Do all have gifts of healings? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?
But earnestly desire the best gifts. And, yet, I show you a more excellent way."
Then we have chapter 13 -- the greatest is 'love'. And the rest of the chapter. Very thought provoking.