Many people say that God is in control.If one takes control of something or someone,then that person takes control because they fear that that person or event will not work out. What does the Lord not know??( Psalm 139:1-4) just one of many verses I could share. If God takes control in any way shape or form, then your free will is no more.
Even as the Lord knows all things in any heart he also has made a way of escape.( 1 Cor 10:13) Now can the Lord use certain events or people to wake one up from ones sleep?? YOU BET he can!!! He did me!! LOL( Rom 13:11-14) I understand some may not agree with me,and that is fine,I just wanted you to see and consider something outside the box.