My baby is with our Father..

[snowflake]

I will keep on praying for you bob, and I also believe you will be united with your child in heaven.
Ruth

 

[Eve]

Dear Bob and Hazel,

Please accept my condolences. I am so very sorry that you experienced this terrible tragedy, I can only imagine what you must have gone through. My little girl's Daddy was suddenly ripped away from her when she was 3. He doted on her. Which ever way around it is, it is awful when parents are separated from their little ones.

'God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted.'

Matthew 5:4 The Sermon on the Mount.

 

[SpiritLedEd]

I had a baby born dead when i was 13 and it was a girl and i called her Ruth. I think i would see her too Bob because Jesus said that theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Heather-Anne,

Since you've thrown you lot in with Jesus and asked Him to be your Lord and Saviour, it is an absolute certainty that you'll see your baby in Heaven. There's no question about it.


SLE

 

[Eve]

Heather-Anne,

Please also accept my condolences. My daughter is almost the age you were when you lost Ruth. I would hate for her to have to experience such a terrible loss like that so very young. My heart goes out to you. I will share my Auntie's story with you, so maybe you can find some comfort from it.

My Auntie went through several miscarriages and lost a baby of 6 months old. The only thing that got her through that time was her faith in God. She clung closer to him. She continued to have troubles at home as, due to their loss, her husband became an alcoholic.

Due to her strong faith she became a highly respected church warden and worked with children who were struggling in schools as an education assistant. Through all the years she stuck with her husband because that is what her faith taught her. A while after her loss she went on to have a boy and a girl.

Her husband is now drink free and she is a grandmother of five.

'I weep with grief; encourage me by your word....Make me walk along the path of your commands, for that is where my happiness is found.' Psalm 119 V28 and 35

 

[maranatha]

cry with the crying

I really feel sad to hear your story. But everything works for good for those who are called and love God.
So don't worry if you are called and love God than anything. God will change all your situations. God bless you

 

[Gloriatrix]

infant death

Bob - I am so sorry for your loss, but your reunion with little Bob will be more perfectly joyous. Your strength and faith are a great example to us all, and your son must be proud of his Dad looking down from Heaven on your goodness.

I lost my twin brother when he was just an infant; I never even knew him at all, really. But ever since, all my life into old age, I have felt something gnawing at me, as if I had something of me missing, a part of me that wasnt there. I believe this is my brother's loss which I feel in my soul. I pray that we may all rejoice together and be made whole when the Lord's day comes. Praise the Lord my God!!

 

[TDS52]

May I give some assurance to those who feel uneasy. Last December, as my dad was in the hospital awaiting his "homegoing", he was alert and able to talk with us about the scenes he was experiencing from the Heavenly shore. He gave us real assurance that Heaven is real for the Christian. He and my mom had lost their first child, he spoke of seeing him and holding him. He spoke of so many glorious scenes that we will one day get to experience ourselves. We can be assured, as I wrote in a previous post, of going to be with them. In 2 Samuel 12:15-23, you can read the story of David and Bathsheba's son being struck with sickness and how David prayed and fasted for the child to be well, but the child died. David's servants were afraid to tell him about the death of the child for he was in such sorrow over his sickness. When David learned that the child was dead, his whole attitude changed..."...he arose from the earth, and washed, and anointed himself, and changed his apparel, and came into the house of the LORD, and worshipped: then he came to his own house; and when he required, they set bread before him, and he did eat. Then said his servants unto him, What thing is this that thou hast done? thou didst
fast and weep for the child, while it was alive; but when the child was dead, thou didst rise and eat bread. And he said, While the child was yet alive, I fasted and wept: for I said, Who can tell whether GOD will be gracious to me, that the child may live? But now he is dead, wherefore should I fast? can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me." (verses 20-23)

May GOD grant peace to the hearts of those who have experienced the death of a child of any age.

 

[Jonah2005]

May I give some assurance to those who feel uneasy. Last December, as my dad was in the hospital awaiting his "homegoing", he was alert and able to talk with us about the scenes he was experiencing from the Heavenly shore. He gave us real assurance that Heaven is real for the Christian. He and my mom had lost their first child, he spoke of seeing him and holding him. He spoke of so many glorious scenes that we will one day get to experience ourselves. We can be assured, as I wrote in a previous post, of going to be with them. In 2 Samuel 12:15-23, you can read the story of David and Bathsheba's son being struck with sickness and how David prayed and fasted for the child to be well, but the child died. David's servants were afraid to tell him about the death of the child for he was in such sorrow over his sickness. When David learned that the child was dead, his whole attitude changed..."...he arose from the earth, and washed, and anointed himself, and changed his apparel, and came into the house of the LORD, and worshipped: then he came to his own house; and when he required, they set bread before him, and he did eat. Then said his servants unto him, What thing is this that thou hast done? thou didst
fast and weep for the child, while it was alive; but when the child was dead, thou didst rise and eat bread. And he said, While the child was yet alive, I fasted and wept: for I said, Who can tell whether GOD will be gracious to me, that the child may live? But now he is dead, wherefore should I fast? can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me." (verses 20-23)

May GOD grant peace to the hearts of those who have experienced the death of a child of any age.

Dear Bob, I am truly sorry to hear about your tragity! How my heart & prayers go out to you, right now. But, also realize this, in the meantime, all who turn to (Jehovah) The Almighty GOD, through Christ Jesus can be confident that even now HE will help and support them in coping with the gripping effects of a love one that has died. Though we don't have the answers to eveything - it is good to know that GOD - understands! Jonah2005 {*genesis!}
PS And - remember Job {Job 1:-42:1-17}

 

[lasi]

I had a baby born dead when i was 13 and it was a girl and i called her Ruth. I think i would see her too Bob because Jesus said that theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Heather Anne...wow what amazing strength. I was 14 when my daughter died and i have never been certain of what happened to her....this forum has really helped! praise God thank you for sharing, i think you are amazing adn i bet ya cant wait to see little ruth one day.

 

[Colin2000]

He reached down His hand and He lifted me up! Alleluia. The Peace of God shines in His eyes and He holds me with His hand as He shelters me with His body.

Put yourself in my place all those who have lost a child especially Lasi and you Heather - Anne as I say it again.


He reached down His hand and He lifted ..me.. up! Alleluia. The Peace of God shines in His eyes and He holds ..me.. with His hand as He shelters ..me.. with His body.


Suffer the little children to come to me!!!

I wonder whether He will have time for me, there are so many of them?

But my God is a mighty God, the beginning and the end. Alpha and Omega.

Yet he can still find time to shelter us,

'He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.

I will say of the Lord,
"He is my refuge and my fortress,
my God, in whom I trust." '
[Ps.91:1&2.NIV. (The rest worth a read prayfully!).].

"Listen to me, you islands:
hear this, you distant nations:
Before I was born the Lord called me;
from my birth he has made mention of my name."

"He made my mouth like a sharpened sword,
in the shadow of his hand he hid me:
he made me into a polished arrow
and concealed me in his quiver."

He said to me, "You are me servant Israel, in whom I will display my splendour."

[Isaiah,49:1 - 3 NIV, (Worth reading the rest V's 1 to 7.).]

Before I was born the Lord called me. [Is.1:1]. [Mt.1:20 God's Son arrives in the Womb by the Holy Ghost then Trinity was born!!!!!!!]. Suffer the little children to come to Me!

Peace flowing like a river over all those who have lost their dear loved ones. Ahh, Peace like a river Lord let it flow over us now as we open our hearts to Him. Let the peace flow over this Thread like a river!!!

Colin2000.

PS. The Lord has just reminded me of this verse which I have neglected for many years!

"Come now, let us reason together,"
says the Lord.
"Though your sins are like scarlet,
they shall be as white as snow;
though they are red as crimson,
they shall be like wool."
[Isiah.1:18, NIV, Praise the Lord!]

 

[Colin2000]

A Forgotten Tragedy!

Hi All,

I have just finished Thread-post No.31 above, with a deep blessing from the Anointing! But I could not understand why my feelings for you and your losses above were effecting me more than usual when you share with others in these tragic situations. To the point of tears, and that takes some doing these days!

Then the Lord came to me with, 'His Still Small Voice,' in the silence,
"I repeat again, Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow!"

Then He showed me. Many years ago my wife when she had had her miscarriage at a few months after conception! I could not bring myself to look upon him/her, Lord how I regret it now! I was to upset and immature then to face up to it I suppose, I could not bring myself to look upon flesh of my flesh? You see I have never mourned little Terry's passing until now!

I know Terry is with the Lord and this sin of denial is now as white as snow and forgotten in the Lord's presence, Alleluia!!! That's what all this tonight was about for me! I'm now looking forward to fellowship with Terry with my wife, children and grandchildren sometime in the future! All saved and love Jesus. Praise the Lord!

Thank you all those Brothers and Sisters in Christ who have helped me to face this truth. Now I can remember Terry and mourn his/her loss!

Yours in His Tender-loving-kindness,

Colin2000.

PS. Must not forget my grandchildren's father who is a deeply loving Christian and my son's girlfriend another lovely Christian!!! I would that all Christendom had the same blessings in their families and lives.

 

[lasi]

Colin ..thank you...your post meant so much x