Welcome to the forum. Nice to see another brother from my "neck of the woods"!
Have you tried a Calvary Chapel? Most chapels have very good verse-by-verse teachings and are biblically grounded (and they are not members of the World or National Council of Churches like most mainstream denominations). I know there is a Calvary Chapel in San Francisco.
This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. 13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:12–13