alicia_charne
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Im going threw a very hard time and I am really really hurting
Please keep me in your prayers
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Light&salt
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Hi, I will pray for you. May His comfort be in you and around you. That you may feel His presence and love in this difficult time. 
alicia_charne
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Thank you sooo much. I feel so hurt and broken. I need God's peace and healing. I have given my situation to Him but its not an easy one and it's hard to know what to do or to think. All I know is I must trust on Him to know and do what is best but iit doesn't mean that I am ot shattered in the process. May God put me back together the way He sees fit.
alicia_charne
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I guess I could say what's happening. I really love my boy friend. He is 18 and I am 17 we are both very passionate about God and we were having the most amaing relationship ever. It is like we were created for each other. We had the support of everyone or so I though.
Sunday it all started when his father demanded that he choose between me and his studies. I don't know the whole story but I do know that he was very hurt and made no decision. Then on monday he took on his parents and they promised to stop it. Tuesday they forced him to choose between me and college. If he choose me he would have to pay for his own studies and wasn't allowed to loan from any family. It sounds like he was forced to leave me, I may be mistaken because I don't know the whole story.
Wednesday he came over and we didn't break up because we believe we love each other and were made to be together. We also have both been in alot of tears over the last time.
I don't know what I did that his parents are so against me. I am a good christian girl from a very republe christian family. I just really don't know what to think or hope.
I hear both voices op hope and of despair and don't know which to believe.
My family are crazy about him and everyone was so happy that we were so happy together.
I sent his mom a message earlier and all she said was there were complications and they are still working on it and she will let me know.
Any advice?
Sunday it all started when his father demanded that he choose between me and his studies. I don't know the whole story but I do know that he was very hurt and made no decision. Then on monday he took on his parents and they promised to stop it. Tuesday they forced him to choose between me and college. If he choose me he would have to pay for his own studies and wasn't allowed to loan from any family. It sounds like he was forced to leave me, I may be mistaken because I don't know the whole story.
Wednesday he came over and we didn't break up because we believe we love each other and were made to be together. We also have both been in alot of tears over the last time.
I don't know what I did that his parents are so against me. I am a good christian girl from a very republe christian family. I just really don't know what to think or hope.
I hear both voices op hope and of despair and don't know which to believe.
My family are crazy about him and everyone was so happy that we were so happy together.
I sent his mom a message earlier and all she said was there were complications and they are still working on it and she will let me know.
Any advice?
No one can seperate...
I am sure if you are united by God nothing and no one can seperate you from each other. You need to surrender this problem to Jesus. Jesus never does anything without a purpose. What God has united let no man seperate. Just pray "Heart of Jesus burning with love for me and for my friend inflame our hearts with love for each other.:boy_hug: :girl_hug:
I am sure if you are united by God nothing and no one can seperate you from each other. You need to surrender this problem to Jesus. Jesus never does anything without a purpose. What God has united let no man seperate. Just pray "Heart of Jesus burning with love for me and for my friend inflame our hearts with love for each other.:boy_hug: :girl_hug:
alicia_charne
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Thank you. I must just keep positive, know if he is not the one there is better but i really do hope what i feel for him he shares and we can make it threw this and God changes the hearts of his parents.
alicia_charne
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Only problem this is easier said than done
I understand...
At this moment your feelings are at the peak. How to put the feelings down? There is only one way. Surrendering in faith. How? Just praise the Lord without concentrating on yourself and your feelings. Then the peace of the Lord will come and you will have light to see with the eyes of God all what is happening around you. Hope I am clear. This is the way I manage my life with all the problems around me.
At this moment your feelings are at the peak. How to put the feelings down? There is only one way. Surrendering in faith. How? Just praise the Lord without concentrating on yourself and your feelings. Then the peace of the Lord will come and you will have light to see with the eyes of God all what is happening around you. Hope I am clear. This is the way I manage my life with all the problems around me.
Alicia, I have just read your story. My immediate reaction.....I have been there. I remember that pain. Some time ago, but I can still recall.
I went on from that to another beautilful relationship, which turned out to be better than the first one, and we married.
You are aware I know, that Jesus knows all about it. As you rest in Him, leaving the matter with Him. Let Jesus work it out for you.
God Bless You
I went on from that to another beautilful relationship, which turned out to be better than the first one, and we married.
You are aware I know, that Jesus knows all about it. As you rest in Him, leaving the matter with Him. Let Jesus work it out for you.
God Bless You
Hi young love
:rose: Hi. I am Pixie. Eight years ago, my husband and I seperated. I was devastated and prayed and prayed that we get back together. My heart was broken and it left me so broken inside. I prayed and asked for prayer requests over and over and it seemed like nothing would happen. Well something did happen finally. I fell deeply in love with my Father, His Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit. My heart smiles by itself now. I did try and date a few other men because I was lonely being single. But I am not lonely anymore. I seem to need so much time to spend talking to God, I just couldn't fit a man into my life right now and most of the talk is from a very happy heart. God bless you at 17. Hope your future schooling does well for you. God will give you exactly what you need. Hope it is full of smiles. Amenixie:rose:
:rose: Hi. I am Pixie. Eight years ago, my husband and I seperated. I was devastated and prayed and prayed that we get back together. My heart was broken and it left me so broken inside. I prayed and asked for prayer requests over and over and it seemed like nothing would happen. Well something did happen finally. I fell deeply in love with my Father, His Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit. My heart smiles by itself now. I did try and date a few other men because I was lonely being single. But I am not lonely anymore. I seem to need so much time to spend talking to God, I just couldn't fit a man into my life right now and most of the talk is from a very happy heart. God bless you at 17. Hope your future schooling does well for you. God will give you exactly what you need. Hope it is full of smiles. Amen
ixie:rose:alicia_charne
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Well guys I just got the message there is no way out and he gives up, he says if it's God's will we will meet up again someday when things are better. He told me to move on. I guess Im should just stay single now because Im moving to Australia in a year to study at Hillsong and I have to be single first year but relationships are my weakness, how am I gonna do it for a year?
alicia_charne
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Wow how great is God, He said that He planned this to show me His love. I was willing to give up my dream for this guy and God put his so claimed love to the test and eventually it failed while Gods love was proven 2000 years ago for me and will never choose anything above me. Amen to all things work out for the good for those who love the LORD!!!!
alicia_charne
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update- Sunday He said sorry for giving up and begged my forgiveness and I accepted and we got back together and today I hear God changed hus parents minds. Thanx so much for the prayers, Now only to have courage to face his parents in love...
alicia_charne
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Amen to that
encouragement
The thing Alicia about a testimony is that it starts with a test and all true men and women of God in the bible and in the world were and are tested regularly.
I am reading Job at the moment (encouraging eh?) but it was interesting to note that the testing was only put on Job as God ALLOWED Satan to touch Job and God's heart was to deepen Job's love and devotion through this.
We can swiftly go to the end of the book of Job and forget the trials that Job faced but not once did he curse God when he had lost everything.
I am not saying that your situation compares to Job Alicia, but I hope you are encouraged to go on by it as the blessing follows the trial
("they that sow in tears shall reap in joy" - Psalms)
God bless and lovely chatting to you today.
Biggie
The thing Alicia about a testimony is that it starts with a test and all true men and women of God in the bible and in the world were and are tested regularly.
I am reading Job at the moment (encouraging eh?) but it was interesting to note that the testing was only put on Job as God ALLOWED Satan to touch Job and God's heart was to deepen Job's love and devotion through this.
We can swiftly go to the end of the book of Job and forget the trials that Job faced but not once did he curse God when he had lost everything.
I am not saying that your situation compares to Job Alicia, but I hope you are encouraged to go on by it as the blessing follows the trial
("they that sow in tears shall reap in joy" - Psalms)
God bless and lovely chatting to you today.
Biggie
I understand your pain, for I experienced something similar as a teenager. Now I am the mother of a teenager (boy) and I too want him to make school his priority. If your love for each other is real, it will last. Ask the Lord for patience. Believe me, you won't regret it.
Please continue to trust in the Lord, He will make a way. I know that it seems easier said than done, it will work out, but only through sincere trust in the Lord. Stay in prayer, and let God guide you. May He send a special blessing to you!
Please continue to trust in the Lord, He will make a way. I know that it seems easier said than done, it will work out, but only through sincere trust in the Lord. Stay in prayer, and let God guide you. May He send a special blessing to you!