what's your difinition of dating and going out?

[DaughterofEve]

I see dating as a time when two people get to know each together and ask about another's hopes and dreams and also to see if God wants me to spend the rest of my life with that person. I do not picture dating as kissing or hugging. I mean, I don't see anyhting wrong with a hug very now and then, but I don't think that is what it is all about.
I have not had any experience with a date, (I shoundn't I am only 12), but from my parent's stories about their dates, and looking at dates with a Christian perspective, I know what a date is about and not about. The only dates I have been on are the dates that I go on with my mom and dad.. With my mom I usually go shopping and have breakfast and with my dad I go ice skating and to eat lunch.
:girl: I do have a pretty bad crush on a guy named Alex though.
I love this about the internet. I can tell you guys anything with out getting shy and embaraced.
I think I am going to save my first kiss if and when my wedding comes too. Any one else?

 

[iLoVeJESUS C.]

I just recently started dating this boy and I'm afraid that I am wasting my time on him. I really really like him, and I want to be with him, Im just afraid he isnt the boy that god wants me to be with. Sorry if that sounds weird! What should I do?

 

[lnrobar]

I just recently started dating this boy and I'm afraid that I am wasting my time on him. I really really like him, and I want to be with him, Im just afraid he isnt the boy that god wants me to be with. Sorry if that sounds weird! What should I do?

Ok, what I would do in your situation is ask myself this question. Why are you in this relationship? Is it to glorify God or make your desires feel better? (This is only my opinion Im not judging anyone) Honestly, I think that if the relationship you have is totally focused on God, and not yourselves then it may be good. I don't know, I am the kind of person that likes to be friends with people first. I have never dated but that's what I want. And I know that if its meant to be and you are completely focused on God, then He will bring the two of you together in His own time for a deeper loving covenant.

And when I say focused on God I don't mean going to church together and praying for each other. I mean going to church, not even worried about where the other one is, just worshiping God, and praising Him. When you call one another it's to lift each other up with encouragement and words of wisdom. Reading the bible and sharing revelations with each other, trying to help each other grow stronger in Christ. Living in complete submission to God.

These like I said are just my own opinions. Don't take any of them personally if you don't agree with me.

God Bless you
Sis in Christ
Lnrobar

 

[DaughterofEve]

Is he Christian?