Eph. 5:22-25
" Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;"
This is not a dictatorship over women! It's assuming the husband is subject unto Christ.
If the husband submits properly to Christ, the wife will have no problem submitting to the husband.