Thankyou for your post papajim I'll just have to break it up a bit and address specific points you made.
Here is also something for you to think about. God said to Adam and Eve "
“in the day that you eat from it you shall surely die", but they did not die that same day, they lived another 800 or so years! So this indicates that the death which is the wages of sin, is not ceasing to exist, but eternal separation from God. We note that the antipode for this verse you mentioned is "gift of God is eternal life". So on one side we have "eternal death", and on the other side "eternal life". Or in other words "eternal separation from God" versus "eternal life with God".
I think the Scriptures I have posted indicating that torment is never ending and the fire is never put out , in Greek: 'eis tous aionas ton aionon' , are quite clear and stand alone by themselves without requiring further interpretation.
We note that the Bible never says that the Lake of Fire will cease burning.
Oh dear, where is this from? Jesus never burnt in hell or burnt anywhere. Jesus said to the thief that they would be together in Paradise. Jesus went to the place of the dead, Hades..and the good side of Hades.. Paradise. This is not the same as "Gehenna", lake of fire, which is the final destination of satan and fallen angels and demons and all humans on their side. Unfortunately the KJV translates both places with the Anglo-Saxon word "hell", which leads to the confusion.
Well there's no contradiction in my mind

I accept what the Bible says plainly and simply about everlasting torment (Rev 20:20). This is straight from the Bible.
I should add that Judaism has a similar concept of a place of lasting torment, rather than destruction.
According to Jewish tradition Gehenna is an afterlife realm where the souls of the unrighteous are punished.
I'm not sure where you got the idea that it is a pagan concept. The idea is in Christianity because it came from Judaism. Most early Christians including the Apostles did not believe differently. Today, the only Christian groups that do not believe in eternal torment are the Christian cults.
We may look to church history to prove that this is so. Of course they are uninspired records but we can look to these sources as historical proof that the doctrine of eternal torment is a very old one and was the commonly held view in the early church, well before the decline of the church got a foothold.
The historical proof is overwhelming that the early Christians generally believed in a place of torment not annihilation. Some of these ones I quote below (e.g.
Irenaeus) were only 2nd generation disciples to the apostles themselves.
- If, therefore, any one shall violently suppose that the destruction of the soul and the flesh in hell amounts to a final annihilation of the two substances, and not to their penal treatment (as if they were to be consumed, not punished), let him recollect that the fire of hell is eternal — expressly announced as an everlasting penalty; and let him admit that it is from this circumstance that this never-ending "killing" is more formidable than a merely human murder, which is only temporal. — Tertullian On the Resurrection of the Flesh Chapter 35
150 AD Justin Martyr: and we say that the same thing will be done, but at the hand of Christ, and upon the wicked in the same bodies united again to their spirits which are now to undergo everlasting punishment; and not only, as Plato said, for a period of a thousand years. And if any one say that this is incredible or impossible, this error of ours is one which concerns ourselves only, and no other person, so long as you cannot convict us of doing any harm. (The First Apology of Justin, Chap. VIII)
But God, foreknowing all things, prepared fit habitations for both, kindly conferring that light which they desire on those who seek after the light of incorruption, and resort to it; but for the despisers and mockers who avoid and turn themselves away from this light, and who do, as it were, blind themselves, He has prepared darkness suitable to persons who oppose the light, and He has inflicted an appropriate punishment upon those who try to avoid being subject to Him. Submission to God is eternal rest, so that they who shun the light have a place worthy of their flight; and those who fly from eternal rest, have a habitation in accordance with their fleeing. Now, since all good things are with God, they who by their own determination fly from God, do defraud themselves of all good things; and having been thus defrauded of all good things with respect to God, they shall consequently fall under the just judgment of God. For those persons who shun rest shall justly incur punishment, and those who avoid the light shall justly dwell in darkness. — Irenaeus,
Against Heresies Book 4, Chapter 39.4
"Inasmuch, then, as in both Testaments there is the same righteousness of God displayed when God takes vengeance, in the one case indeed typically, temporarily, and more moderately; but in the other, really, enduringly, and more rigidly; for the fire is eternal...." — Irenaeus, Against Heresies Book 4, Chapter 28.1
"For neither will you commit any offence against your fathers, if you now show a desire to betake yourselves to that which is quite opposed to their error, since it is likely enough that they themselves are now lamenting in Hades, and repenting with a too late repentance.... — Justin, Hortatory Address to the Greeks Chapter 35
- And by means of this knowledge [of the true God] you shall escape the approaching threat of the fire of judgment, and the rayless scenery of gloomy Tartarus, where never shines a beam from the irradiating voice of the Word! You shall escape the boiling flood of hell's eternal lake of fire, and the eye ever fixed in menacing glare of fallen angels chained in Tartarus as punishment for their sins; and you shall escape the worm that ceaselessly coils for food around the body whose scum has bred it. — Hippolytus, Refutation of All Heresies Book 10, Chapter 30
- We are persuaded that when we are removed from the present life we shall live another life, better than the present one...or, falling with the rest, a worse one and in fire; for God has not made us as sheep or beasts of burden, a mere by-work, and that we should perish and be annihilated." — Athenagoras, A Plea for the Christians Chapter 3
- By and by thou givest up thy life; thou shalt be taken where it grieveth thee to be: there the spiritual punishment, which is eternal, is undergone; there are always wailings: nor dost thou absolutely die therein — there at length too late proclaiming the omnipotent God." — Commodianus, Instructions Chapter 29