I believe in the gifts, but I totally 100% agree with this statement.
There are some churches ( one big mega-church in California especially ) that have seminars, and classes, and in some cases charge $1,000.00 or more to "teach" you what your gift is and how to use it.
I don't see this in the Bible anywhere, in fact I see the opposite.
Acts 8:17; Then they began laying their hands on them, and they were receiving the Holy Spirit.
Acts 8:18; Now when Simon saw that the Spirit was bestowed through the laying on of the apostles' hands, he offered them money,
Acts 8:19; saying, "Give this authority to me as well, so that everyone on whom I lay my hands may receive the Holy Spirit."
Acts 8:20; But Peter said to him, "May your silver perish with you, because you thought you could obtain the gift of God with money!
Acts 8:21; "You have no part or portion in this matter, for your heart is not right before God.
Acts 8:22; "Therefore repent of this wickedness of yours, and pray the Lord that, if possible, the intention of your heart may be forgiven you.
I don't see anywhere in the Bible where someone "taught" someone how to know what their gift was and how to use it.
1Cor 12:6; There are varieties of effects, but the same God who works all things in all persons.
1Cor 12:7; But to each one is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.
1Cor 12:8; For to one is given the word of wisdom through the Spirit, and to another the word of knowledge according to the same Spirit;
1Cor 12:9; to another faith by the same Spirit, and to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit,
1Cor 12:10; and to another the effecting of miracles, and to another prophecy, and to another the distinguishing of spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, and to another the interpretation of tongues.
1Cor 12:11; But one and the same Spirit works all these things, distributing to each one individually just as He wills.
... "as He wills". You don't get to pick your gift. Going to the "healing" class doesn't mean you have the gift of healing. God chooses which gift(s) you have.
I am also sure that if any of the gifts are still in effect, ( wisdom, knowledge, faith ) then all of the gifts are still in effect.
Every saved person has at least one of these gifts.
It seems some of these gifts are rare, but what I'm finding even more rare these days is...
Gal 5:22; But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
Gal 5:23; gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Some people use this one single verse to build a doctrine on.
1Cor 13:8; Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away.
1Cor 13:13 But now faith, hope, love, these three will remain; but the greatest of these is love.
I wonder if that means that joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self-control have ceased?
I'm beginning to wonder if the fruit of Spirit is still in effect. ( passive/aggressive sarcasm )
Matt 24:12; "Because lawlessness is increased, most people's love will grow cold.
Luke 18:8; "I tell you that He will bring about justice for them quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?"