Is not loving a sin?
I asked this question in this fashion, at the time. Moved by the spirit to do so, but not truly knowing exactly where it would take me. Thank-you Father God for guiding me and pushing me ever forward.
Truth be told, I looked at the many sides on this thread, and could not reconcile any one as being totally correct. Each side has ample scripture to support their positions. The attempt of all, was to disprove a position arrived by careful study and understanding of scripture and/or in support of their existing position in faithfulness of belief. Roughly speaking that is. Many nuances in defining it, but basically a person is either in a saved state upon an individual declaration (Regardless of behavior to the contrary afterwards.) or saved and working towards that goal (Reflective in their behavior.). These positions held even to the point of mentioning "Love" as to provide support. However, "Love" was never truly the focal point of the position or discussion. However, in honesty, I do believe it should have been. For only by assessing "Love" in our own lives, can we know if God is truly in us; His Saving Grace. That is where I pray this post will take you which is further forward upon a truly narrow path we walk.
This thought had never occurred to me that there was a possibility that both positions could be right. That a professing believer could be delivered and still be working towards a goal that included works and that a professing believer could be delivered but exhibit no signs of change by works. The latter being the more difficult position to concede and support until @barney so eloquently stated his position.
This however, left me in a conundrum. Once again, how to reconcile what appears to be opposing positions. Prayer, reading and studying of scripture, was beneficial, including all the posting from this thread (which is ongoing) but they still easily supported one position or the other rather readily, yet none without an opposite response. Yet one word continued to show itself, occasionally in this thread and throughout scripture, which repeated over and over again reverberating within my heart, my spirit. LOVE!
The below scripture in particular stood out, because it was given by our Lord as a Commandment. This verse and the question I posed in the opening prompted me in part to walk a road less traveled in this thread.
John 13:34-35 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
I firmly believe to reconcile both positions of the discussion being held here, the answer to the opening question must be "it can be sin" and "cannot be sin". That is correct. You did not misread this. The answer is "Yes" and "No". How, can it possibly be both? To have one question and two opposing answers and still be truth? This may not be easy, and is the foremost reason, that I've rewritten this numerous times, pouring over phrasing, praying for guidance and even as I now type this, am not quite sure it will be the finished product that will be posted as it currently stands or truly communicate what is within my heart and spirit to share.
It is written in Matthew 7:23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
The preceding verses of v23 easily identified that the workers of perceived beneficial works were being cast aside, and that works in of themselves would not bring Salvation to the doers. Which means they will be viewed as sinners in the eyes of God. Some might attribute it to a possible lack of belief being their failure. Was it their lack of belief? I don't think so. Look at what was written about these individuals and what they said in v21. "Lord Lord". Meaning these individuals acknowledge Him even recognized Him as Lord! They knew who He was! What does scripture say about belief:
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
I knew I had to tread carefully, because this could easily be seen as questioning Salvation period, regardless of the position one held! So what was missing that could answer the persistent question or should I say position that had taken over 36 (When I started this it was 26 pages not 36) pages of postings and still counting, to come to some understanding? What was being missed or not being included as foundational that would satisfy what seems to be two unattainable positions?
1 Corinthians 3:13-15 [13] Every man's work shall be made manifest: for the day shall declare it, because it shall be revealed by fire; and the fire shall try every man's work of what sort it is. [14] If any man's work abide which he hath built thereupon, he shall receive a reward. [15] If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire.
Many can see that the above verse can support either position depending on which side is making the point. No definitive answer here in determining the state an individual needs to be in at the time of the above noted event.
However, we do know that works are an evidence by which one is seen as being delivered. (Hold still on this brother @barney a moment please!) My brother
@brakelite has done an awesome job of showing this, and how I truly believed this even now (However, not in the way either of you might interpret it.) The scriptures are also numerous supporting this and can easily be found by going back through these many postings on this thread.
So what must be the determining factor for both conditions to be true? A song that I posted in media here at TJ, brought to mind a verse from 1 Corinthians 13 "If we have not love". KJV has it as Charity, but if you look to translate Charity, its translated as
agape, "Love". This is one part that the KJV would have provided a greater insight if it had used Love instead of Charity. When looking at Strongs for both words, the definition given can both be found in G26.
LOVE!!!! It really doesn't matter what language is used, the inability by man to but scratch the surface of understanding it much less living it, easily can degrade into an intellectual exercise that creates more bindings then it does freedom in the innocence of just knowing and accepting. Like children my brothers and sisters, like children must we be.
Love is not stagnant, it is vibrant, interactive, and every other word attributed to the Godhead. Unlike any law, it cannot be measured except to say that God is Love! (
1 John 4:8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.) We can attempt to feature certain actions or behaviors as being or not being love, but who can in truth say, they fully comprehend God, who is Love? Love is a state of continual being, while all creation is a byproduct of God's Love. Start there or at the Cross which is where for all of us it started, then move forward.
I do believe that one day we will once again know the fulness of God. That day is not yet, but we are on the path to getting there.
Ephesians 3:17 That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, (18) May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; (19) And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.
We are changing. Yes, we can start out doing works of charity as an obligation, but if we have the love of God in us, it will change into a labor of love. Oh, yes! It will! What seems like a chore one moment. The next thing you know, you can't wait for it to come around again! It has become weightless, not a chore, nor a burden, but a joy. What makes the difference is, if you have the Love of God in you! You will be changed by Him! Resistance is futile. Besides, what Child of God would not want this ongoing change?
So many analogies to change and behavior, all to do with Love! What was the meaning of changing a heart of stone to flesh? Is it act in accordance with an obligation? NO! Is it not loving? NO! Everywhere you turn in Scripture, you will see "LOVE" "GOD" as the determining factor. Given to us by a Loving God!
Ezekiel 36:26 A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.
2 Corinthians 3:3 Forasmuch as ye are manifestly declared to be the epistle of Christ ministered by us, written not with ink, but with the Spirit of the living God; not in tables of stone, but in fleshy tables of the heart.
Sadly, some will attempt to state, then how much love is acceptable unto Salvation? I would ask, first tell me how much of God do you have in your heart? When, we do not see clearly enough yet to understand God in all His fulness! What man can comprehend His fulness?
2 Corinthians 3:18 But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, [even] as by the Spirit of the Lord.
Romans 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
We are growing through His Spirit! Alleluia! Glory be to God!
Titus 3:4 But after that the kindness and love of God our Saviour toward man appeared, Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;
John 7:38-39 He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water. (But this spake he of the Spirit, which they that believe on him should receive: for the Holy Ghost was not yet [given]; because that Jesus was not yet glorified.
1 John 4:13 Hereby know we that we dwell in him, and he in us, because he hath given us of his Spirit
Who hasn't heard the expression "The Bible is a Love Letter" Could it be any other way? I repeat this verse, for it needs repeating over and over again!
1 John 4:8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
Romans 5:5 and the hope doth not make ashamed, because the love of God hath been poured forth in our hearts through the Holy Spirit that hath been given to us.
That is why, I ask. Can either position held here say that one can be delivered regardless of what one does or does not do and not love? In other words, does one who does not love be a sinner? Sadly, yes, because what does scripture say "I never knew you!" Why did He not know them? God was not to be found in their hearts though their works and words seemed to say otherwise!
Don't tie yourself up in works that if not done in love, accomplish little. Remember, God chooses who He wants to have His will done. Doesn't always have to be a believer. Remember Pharaoh!
We know if we "confess" with our mouth that Jesus is Lord and "
believe in your heart" that God raised him from the dead you will be saved. There is where the matter of deliverance is to be found!
Do we believe in our hearts? What evidence do we have of this?
One might say, I believe in His word, I believe in His promises. This is not an exercise, but one of looking into ones' own deceiving heart
Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?
What we really need to be able to ask ourselves it "Do I or you have the love of God in our Heart?
Fearing to look, knowing the deceptive nature of it, yet needing to know if my God resides in my heart? If He does, shouldn't there be a change that occurs, just by the very fact that God is in us? Should not the very Love that God is, be reflected by us to the world, a world that most assuredly will not reflect it back?
1 John 2:5 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
Romans 10:9 that if thou mayest confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and mayest believe in thy heart that God did raise him out of the dead, thou shalt be saved,
How many threads have I read here at TJ, that has had me wonder even before this revelation if the thought of communicating in love was even thought of before putting finger to keyboard? Was time taken so there would if possible be no misunderstanding that the reader would know that even in disagreement that the author truly has love for them? Could they imagine that this person has the love of God in their hearts?
Truth be told, I did not come by this in a natural progression, but supernaturally. No one but the Holy Spirit, could have had me change from the aggressive, spontaneous writer, speaker that needed to make a point. (Which at times I am still susceptible to doing.) A point that was more important to me than the telling to others the love of Christ Jesus and all that entails; which now resides in my heart, and is sorely limited by my own ability with words and complete understanding.
Maybe, that is why, even as I type at times, I have difficulty seeing through the tears, because the words fail me in communicating this love, or that somehow I might fail in making that love known, in a way that does not diminish, but rather provides an avenue of growth for the reader which I pray leads to a greater understanding of our God who is Love.
Hebrews 6:10 For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love, which ye have shewed toward his name, in that ye have ministered to the saints, and do minister.
So the questions you should be asking at this moment are not "Is not loving a sin?", "Is my behavior according to the law acceptable unto salvation?", "Is just believing sufficient as a Child of the Most High?" The question you should be asking yourself is "Do I have the Love of God in my heart with this limited yet growing understanding of what that means? " For if you
can answer in the affirmative then everything else will fall into its rightful place, and within God's will, which is where we want to be as individual parts of the body of Christ.
I cannot go on and continue writing in words that my spirit shouts without words to convince you of this truth. Only each of you can do that. So argue both points if you must, but remember; if Love is not in the forefront of what you do, no matter how much success you believe you've achieved or how secure you believe your position to be, you will have done it all in vain in not having a heart founded in Love.
I pray this may touch, and move the hearts of those, whose desire as mine is to only be that "good and faithful servant"; able to not only go boldly before the throne; but to prostrate ourselves with our tears falling upon His feet, in the all encompassing love that cannot be contained that is God. Alleluia Abba Father, All Glory, Honor and Praise!!
With all my love my brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus.
Nick
1 John 4:7-21