Hello Brother Frank,
What you need to ask yourself are you celebrating Christmas or are you celebrating the Birth of our Lord Jesus Christ? I ask this, because in truth no one actually knows the date of the birth of our Lord, but whenever it did happen that it was a day to rejoice. What did the Angels proclaim?
Now there were in the same country shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. And behold, an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were greatly afraid. Then the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. "For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. "And this [will be] the sign to you: You will find a Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in a manger." And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: "Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace, goodwill toward men!" Luke 2:8-14
Now you have scholars who will debate this. Meaning the tie in to pagan day of worship, and how the RCC used this as a way to evangelize the tribes located in what is now the UK, Ireland, etc. by using a day they were already acknowledging as being special and using it to tie into the birth of Christ and so Christendom who no one knew for sure when our Lord was born used this to their advantage. Sure. This is kind of stretch on my part, but it bears similarities to how Paul addressed the Altar that was used in Greece that was dedicated to the Unknown God. Stating the following "for as I was passing through and considering the objects of your worship, I even found an altar with this inscription: TO THE UNKNOWN GOD. Therefore, the One whom you worship without knowing, Him I proclaim to you: Act 17:23
Which begs the question. Were the Greeks actually worshiping the one true God unknowingly when they went to this Altar to worship, or was Paul using what they were already doing as a way to introduce them to the one true God?
Now there is no doubting that Christmas has taken a more mythical, commercial, secular, quasi religious with great distortions of what actually we do know about as it pertains to the Birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus then probably originally intended even by the RCC has happened. However, if this as an opportunity to introduce a people who know nothing of the true Christ to them. I find it of greater difficulty to now begin shouting from the roof tops that Jesus wasn't born on this day at all, and you all are being fooled, when I don't know even when He was born, or even if His birth is worthy of such attention according to Scripture? Instead using the opportunity to disabuse who I can of that the importance of Christmas is not the trees, gifts, decorations, etc. but rather that our Savior was Born if not on this day, but He was Born! Whatever day in truth that may be.
This is not to say, that you should follow what everyone else is doing, and that you should quench the disquiet of your Spirit. God forbid! Follow as the Spirit moves you in this. Just understand that if you can't at least accept or get past that most will not see it as you do, and that it's not taken as an opportunity to spread the Gospel, in truth. This will narrow the churches or fellowships that you will be able to attend without conflict, but that should be no never mind. Which means that I honestly believe if your Spirit is disquieted by this, that you should pray that you will be able to find a church where they do not celebrate this day.
Meaning that even the church you find that doesn't celebrate this day, also, might not follow all Scriptural dictates perfectly in other areas. Some folks like to say that if you're looking for a perfect church, and find it. That the minute you step through those doors, it will cease being perfect.
However, if you are called by God for this. Start your own church. The church I now attend started in a farmhouse kitchen with four people who would meet for bible study and attended no other church. The results of these four Brothers & Sisters stepping out in faith is that 60 or so years later it now resides in a church that can hold a thousand. God is awesome if you trust Him for what you need to do and step out in faith. Listen to the promptings of the Holy Spirit rather then man. This last is the best advise and guidance I can give you brother.
I hope I haven't been too confusing in the back and forth here brother. For confusion is the last thing I pray that you receive from me.
With the Love of Christ Jesus Brother Frank.
YBIC
Nick
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